Post Date December, 03 2023
'leftover' is no longer the exclusive term for older women, but rather travels with many older men. At this time, men will face unprecedented marital anxiety and constantly engage in blind dates. Nevertheless, these older men still cast their gaze towards their twenties, believing that their charm still lingers. But in the eyes of these beautiful women, they are just an old man. But if the blind date fails continuously, their psychology is prone to change. Let's take a look at the reasons for the psychological changes in older single men..
In fact, their psychology will change because they have been unable to find a girlfriend for a long time and have self doubt. I believe many men don't understand why they can't be favored by the woman they love. So, what exactly is the reason for this phenomenon? If you want to know, please look down.
Reasons for psychological changes in single men
I always feel that women are snobbish
Men, in addition to having certain abilities, still need to have a more upright mindset, especially some men who love to hear that wind is rain. Upon seeing some cases of 'bad' towards women, it is believed that they are all snobs, who love money like life and do not truly appreciate themselves. So over time, one will wear a kind of "colored glasses" to see the women around them, believing that every woman is the same, forming a prejudice and a barrier towards women.
2. Afraid of failure and afraid to face the possibility of rejection
A girl and a boy should at least have courage, care, and thick skin, which means that as a man, if you can bear success, you should also bear failure. However, if you fail, it doesn't matter. You can continue to pursue the next person. This is an attitude, a pursuit of the love you want and the girl you like.
But often single men are most afraid of losing face when they confess their failure, or they may not be able to be friends with the girl they like. In fact, this can easily form a dead cycle. The more they dare not express themselves, the more they are afraid of failure and do not want to fail, so they are no longer willing to express themselves. This is a taboo for many single men.
3. Overconfidence and lack of self-examination
If they have a good enough inner self, there is no need to deliberately change their external self. They will believe that men who truly love themselves will not mind their external self, and are willing to give unconditionally for themselves. Similarly, some men, like these women, have an overly blind and optimistic attitude towards the world and themselves.
It can be seen that the reasons for psychological changes in single men are common, but they are also what most men want to avoid. In fact, the reasons for the change in mindset are not limited to the above three, but they are just one of the most important reasons. If older single men want to change their current situation, they need to carefully consider whether they have such a mentality. Timely correction may lead to a new relationship.
