Post Date December, 03 2023
The emergence of extramarital affairs has led many people to doubt the authenticity of marriage. Why do those who already have a family still have extramarital affairs? This question is really difficult to answer, but it happens for a reason, with internal factors accounting for a larger proportion.
Fear of intimacy
Some men feel uncomfortable with true intimate relationships, so the excitement of drama, suspense, and dual life is very attractive to them. This type of man usually comes from a family with clearly defined male and female roles. The father is the provider of the family's economy, while the mother is the housewife, and their relationship is not very close. So it leads to the emergence of extramarital affairs.
Lose enthusiasm for life
Psychologists point out that losing enthusiasm and depression towards life can make men feel helpless, powerless, and unable to do anything. Therefore, the simplest solution is to find an understanding and sexy woman to escape the frustrating reality of men. And extramarital love is precisely their way of finding new sustenance.
Intentionally retaliating against you
If a man suspects that a woman is unfaithful to him and cannot forgive her, showing off his extramarital affair, romantic history, and retaliating against a woman becomes an irresistible idea for an angry man.
You don't care enough about him
Perhaps you have become too accustomed to your man's existence, just like the old oak tree in the backyard, almost forgetting that he is also a fragile person who needs companionship, praise, and comfort. If he cannot find these at home, he may bypass you who is "blind" to him and enter the path of an affair.
Born to be passionate
It is also possible that your man is naturally a romantic seed, and this kind of man who likes new things and dislikes old things is different from those who use extramarital affairs to avoid intimate relationships. These amorous and promiscuous sons often feel good about themselves, but they are not good at marriage at all.
