Don't always blame yourself for being unkind to others. Sometimes you and your ex-boyfriend break up because the way you break up is inappropriate. After all, it is a former lover, and no one wants to hate from love.
First move: break up peacefully
This method is only applicable to rational and reasonable men. Generally, sisters don't want to break up with such men, right? If they want to break up, it must be really inappropriate. At this time, you might as well be frank and tell him where the problem is between you. For example, you have stopped calling, or the personalities of the two people are not harmonious. He will accept it calmly and suggest that we have a "breakup dinner" and give Goodbye Kiss something. If you fully praise his reliability, excellence, intelligence and other advantages when you propose to break up, your break up will be more pleasant.
Second move: slowly cool
This is a common way to break up. It can work quickly for men with normal intelligence and intelligence. You always don't answer his phone calls, don't reply to his text messages, and make excuses not to meet him. Don't he understand what you mean? However, for humanitarian reasons, we should try to take care of our ex-boyfriend's emotions step by step. You suddenly cut off all contact with him, and the most powerful man is also prone to heart disease.
Third move: play the yellow face
In order to make your ex-boyfriend "hate" you, you need to destroy your image at all costs, do not make up, do not comb your hair, and better wear clothes against fashion. Local or Lady GaGaGa style clothes should have a magical effect. When your ex-boyfriend can't bear it, you should tell him in time, "Darling, this is the most real me." Make sure your ex-boyfriend holds a spittoon in his hand and vomits away.
To draw inferences from one instance, there are other similar tactics, such as "making him lose face in front of friends" and "doing everything you say or say". The key is that what he hates and what you do always touches his irritable nerves.
The fourth move: playing tricks
When he was playing mahjong for four times in a row, you whispered in his ear, "No wonder the last fortune teller said that I was a nun in my previous life, which would cause the closest people to lose every bet." He drove rear-end, and you quickly pulled out your handkerchief and exclaimed, "Oh, I really am Kefu Ming." He bought the lottery and failed again. You pretended to be dragging him down, "No wonder you, the fortune teller said I have no luck."
Every time you say such things, you must be serious and serious, and put on a look of talking to yourself, not to him at all. Over time, my ex-boyfriend will have some little haze in his mind. At that time, he will definitely take the initiative to say to you, "Let's break up."