Instead of falling in love at first sight and taking the initiative, there are 11 ways to chat up that people cannot refuse

Introduction: Many girls envy falling in love with their ideal husband at first sight, but it is not an easy thing to know. It takes time, place, and person to happen, all three of which match to produce a chemical reaction. Here are 11 great pickup tips to help you encounter romance!

1. Surprise method

Applicable type: suitable for both men and women. One afternoon on the pedestrian street, Miss Xiaolin strolled alone. Suddenly, a man approached and politely asked, "Miss, may I ask what time it is now?" Xiao Lin said apologetically, "I'm sorry, I'm not wearing a watch or phone, and I don't know the time." At this moment, the man reached out and revealed his watch, saying, "I know it's 3:50 pm Beijing time. There's a movie that opens at 4 pm at the cinema over there. Can I invite you to watch it

Friendly reminder: This method applies to both men and women, and only applies to objects with a sense of humor.

2. Direct attack method

Applicable type: suitable for both men and women. Zhao Zhao and several friends came out of the caf é, and the man who had been paying attention to her in the caf é just now followed her all the way. Zhao Zhao chuckled, unsure of the significance of such childish tracking. The man accelerated his pace to keep up, took a few steps to her, spread out his hands to stop her, looked straight at Zhao Zhao, and said very seriously, "Hello! My name is * *, I am in the third grade of * * major at C University, and I really hope to meet you and be friends with you." The friends laughed kindly, and Zhao Zhao also smiled and said to him, "It's okay to be an ordinary friend. Hello, my name is Zhao Zhao

Friendly reminder: Sincerity is the biggest secret to success in a conversation, when you are at a loss in the right direction.

3. Leisure time benefit usage

Applicable type: suitable for both men and women. Xiao Wang was on a business trip to Beijing and was stranded at the airport due to a delayed flight. While feeling bored, someone suddenly took a photo of him on the shoulder. He turned his head and saw that the person who was taking photos of him was actually a beautiful woman. She asked, "Are you also taking flight * *? Are you really late?" It turned out that the beautiful woman was also traveling alone. Xiao Wang suggested going to the airport coffee shop for a drink, and the beautiful woman readily agreed.

Friendly reminder: Using the leisure time of waiting for a plane for a date, the environment and atmosphere are both good, and there is a sense of travel loneliness that there is no need to have met before. Therefore, the chances of successful conversation are higher. Similarly, this method is applicable to trains and ships.

4. Vest lettering method

Applicable type: Male, the girl whom Xiao Si often takes on the No. 1 bus and often sees. One day, the girl finally found the opportunity to approach him. She sat in the position behind him, and Xiaosi vaguely felt that something would happen. Sure enough, a tingling sensation suddenly came from her vest. He didn't look back and knew what she was doing. At the station, Xiaosi got off the train as usual. On the white T-shirt and vest he was wearing, it said, 'Every day I see you, can I be a friend?'? My phone number is 139

Friendly reminder: Not every man has such good manners to write on his vest. He is likely to jump up and shout, "Oh my God! My CK!" As for a woman who loves clothes so much, this method is definitely not applicable!

5. Palm retention method

Applicable type: Male, generous female. For specific situations, please refer to Sanmao's "The Rainy Season Will Not Come Again". She found a boy who had a crush on him for a long time on the playground, didn't say a word, took his hand, and wrote his name and home phone number on his palm. A kind of silent romance that surpasses sound spread in the hearts of two teenagers.

Friendly reminder: When rushing to grab his or her hand, you may need to make a simple explanation, such as: I am not a bad person! Wait, otherwise it may be misunderstood as robbery. After all, not everyone can appreciate the realm of silence over sound.

6. A close friend is difficult to find a way

Applicable type: suitable for both men and women, Mid Autumn Festival, school power outage. Silent and Mosquito are two girls wandering around the campus, nowhere to go, no one is cute. Feeling frustrated, I suddenly saw two boys carrying guitars passing by. After silently discussing with mosquitoes, I boldly walked up and asked, "Can I hear you play a song?" Perhaps the dim moonlight, annoying power outage, and the girl's pleading made them moved, and they immediately agreed to their appointment.

Friendly reminder: Everyone likes to showcase their strengths, especially those with strengths, and this reason sounds beautiful.

7. Rogue Mixed Rice Method - Applicable Type: Male, Kind Female

This is the devil's pickup method taught by Zhenzhen. She came to the casual restaurant she used to come to during lunchtime, took a spoon, and walked over to the man who looked very pleasing to the eye. She said to the bewildered man, "Your food looks delicious, can I have some?" He blushed and stuttered, "Please, please do it." The laughter from her friends reminded him and quickly added, "Why don't I treat you to the key one

Friendly reminder: It's said to be the devil's pickup method.

8. Humbly seeking teaching method - applicable type: suitable for both men and women

Heda caught sight of the girl in the swimming pool who was wearing a red swimsuit and was good at breaststroke. He swam up to the girl and asked, "Hello, you're good at breaststroke. Can you give me some advice?" The girl looked at him suspiciously and immediately said, "I know butterfly, why don't we exchange studies?" The girl smiled.

Friendly reminder: Be truly humble and hide the meaning of the drunken man. The possibility of being rejected is not non-existent, but at least it won't embarrass you.

9. Emotional Praise Method - Applicable Type: Suitable for both men and women, especially for women

Dong Su catches up with the girl coming out of the mall: "Can you tell me the way to Renmin South Road?" After the girl points out the way, he takes a deep breath and says, "God, can you tell me what perfume you use?" She immediately looks at him on guard, and he explains: "I have been looking for this perfume for a long time. Did this mall buy it? What brand? How much is it?" A series of questions about perfume only made the girl relax her vigilance, She kindly told him the answer and even took him to the counter. Of course, I bought perfume, but he gave it to her.

Friendly reminder: Be careful to only ask what you want to ask, and not make the other person feel like you are making other ideas. Wearing thousands of clothes, not flattering, everyone likes their own taste to be approved. Moreover, people are inherently kind, and when they tell you the answer, they also have time to see if it's worth leaving a phone number.

10. Theater Matchmaking Method - Applicable Type: Female

At the entrance of the theater, Haiyang was holding two of the most popular theater tickets, but a friend who had made an appointment with him suddenly broke up. He wanted to see and realized that being alone was boring, and even selling to scalpers was not willing. At this moment, a pair of girls nearby were inquiring about the ticket price to Huang Niu. Just as they were about to give up due to the impact of the ticket price, Ocean walked over to one of the girls and said, "May I invite you and your friends to watch the play?" He gave the tickets to two girls, only one of whom requested that the girl he was talking to invite him to tea in the future. The selfless action immediately moved the girl and took the initiative to schedule a meeting time and place.

The ocean happily leaves, a play that can be seen but not seen, in exchange for an unknown love relationship, he thinks it's very cost-effective.

Friendly reminder: The spirit of giving up on others to make the big picture is very convincing, but girls are prone to clustering. Don't make bad suggestions that only one person can see, otherwise the probability of success will immediately drop to 0.

11. Mobile communication method - Applicable type: suitable for both men and women

Dan Dan met him at the light rail station and fell in love at first sight. After getting into the car, she kept thinking about how to approach him so that she wouldn't be misunderstood as thirteen o'clock. Seeing the car coming to the station, she quickly came up to him and said, "Can I borrow your phone for a while

Perhaps she looked really anxious (not for the sake of making a phone call), so he immediately handed her the phone. After Dandan pressed a few numbers on it, her phone rang. Looking at him bewildered, she smiled and said, "My number is already on your phone. Can you keep in touch in the future

Friendly reminder: Although mobile phone robberies are frequent, after all, kind-hearted people are the majority. As long as you don't look very "criminal", you can usually borrow the other person's phone. This method is both implicit and effective, and it's worth trying.

Friendly reminder: Whether it's girls or brothers, when encountering someone you're passionate about, you should learn to take the initiative! Otherwise, missing it would be a lifelong regret. Of course, even if you don't catch up with the failure in the end, you won't regret it. At least you have tried hard!