Every person who commits a dishonest act will reveal their guilt, especially the betrayal in marriage. Neither party can hide it from the outside world. In real life, men have the most cases of cheating, and they may hide it for a long time, but as long as they carefully observe it, they will gain insight into the behavior of cheating!
There are three types of male infidelity: the first is mental infidelity, the second is physical infidelity, and the last is a dual infidelity of spirit and body. If it is the first and second situations, it can also be forgiven. This man is also within the scope of salvation, and after a cold war, the marriage will return to its original love. The last kind is no longer considered cheating, but outright betrayal. Once a man's infidelity reaches the final stage, it is estimated that 10 cows will not be brought back. The family will one day be dissolved. So how do you know if your man is cheating?
Phenomenon 1: The cost suddenly increases
After cheating, it is necessary to have a candlelight dinner, send roses, and drink coffee in order to please Iraqis, which can reflect a man's gentlemanly demeanor and romance. What is romance? It's just wasting the numbers on your credit card with a girl and letting it change.
This is a compulsory course for men in the love arena. It's a small idea, but I can't afford such a small expense. How can a girl be willing to be romantic with you? Why should someone play a love game with a married husband that won't have an ending or fame? Encounter a girl with high material requirements, such as a house or a sports car.
In order to retain this period of romance, men have to desperately save private money. In the past, even if the money generously given to my wife would still be given to her as much as possible, how much would I be unwilling to do so? Only he knows. If a man does not have extra income, he usually uses various excuses not to give his salary to his wife in full; Some men even hesitate to quit smoking and alcohol!
Phenomenon 2: More overtime
A man who has an affair needs to spend time with his lover outside of work, savoring the enchantment and beauty of warm fragrant nephrite, and naturally cannot go home on time with his wife. Of course, the wife will make phone calls, send text messages, and ask the man why he hasn't come home so late, and with whom. Men often speak up and say, "Work overtime.".
At first, my wife painfully instructed me to remember to eat dinner at work. However, as the number of overtime increases, the wife becomes suspicious. Men will immediately make a face of grievance: "I work so hard and work overtime, isn't it for you and your children to live a better life?"? Otherwise, I will accompany you at home every day, and you will earn money to support me! When most wives hear a man's words, they feel a sense of remorse, believing that they misunderstood their husband. The man saw his wife dispel his suspicion and went home honestly to accompany her several times, coaxing her into raptures and continuing to "work overtime" outside.
Phenomenon 3: absent-mindedness after returning home
When I get home, I feel restless no matter what I do, especially when the phone rings, and I refuse to answer the phone in front of my wife. If my wife asks him what's wrong, he will deny it in an arrogant manner - what can I do? Are you suspicious of me? When this happens, I can tell you with great certainty that he is outside and has a "situation".
As the old saying goes, a man who has no secrets outside will face all the calls calmly at home, and will not be absent-minded, let alone have an arrogant attitude towards his wife's inquiries.
Phenomenon 4: Always looking for friends as shields
When a man returns late outside or is often suspected by his wife, his buddies often volunteer to clarify the truth for him: That day, he was with us, sister-in-law, you must rest assured that my eldest brother is not that kind of person, and I can testify. "And I promise you that even if my eldest brother wants to cheat, our brothers won't spare him. If he marries a virtuous sister-in-law like you and is not satisfied, and dares to have a bad heart towards other women, let's see how we can fix him.".
In fact, these of his buddies are just like him. People say that birds of a feather flock together, which is absolutely true. The most commonly used trick for men who are flirting outside and afraid of a backyard fire is to push these fox friends out as a shield to convince their wives that although he returns late at night, he will definitely keep his wife safe as a jade!