After several relationships, I settled down quite a bit, and the reckless enthusiasm for love that I had when I was young faded as I grew older. At the age of 26, I just want to find a good family, have a child, mentor my husband, and live a good life. On our side, it is rare for a girl to be unmarried at the age of 26. Most girls in their twenties and twenties are already mothers. My parents worried about me and found a matchmaker for me.
After many setbacks, I married my current husband, Feng. He wears a pair of eyes and is gentle, giving a sense of security. When two people talk, he is very respectful. "When inviting guests to dinner, I was always asked to order first. In order to avoid the embarrassment of paying the bill, I took the time to go to the bathroom and bought the bill.". A very careful man, I appreciate it very much, and I can rest assured that I can hand myself over to him.
After getting married, we didn't have a strong relationship, but we got along fairly well. In the morning, I will prepare a nutritious dinner for him, and at night, after work, he will cook delicious food with me. We are very close as newlyweds. "I'm pregnant, I have a big reaction, I can't go to work, and I'm staying at home with a baby.". "I am alone at home, and my husband is not at ease. Let my mother-in-law take care of me.".
"I treat my mother-in-law as if she were my own mother, but she doesn't care about me.". Life is very powerful, and when she says something, I have to be obedient. When I contradict her, she speaks to my husband behind my back. Unfortunately, my husband is also a foolish and filial man. When my mother-in-law says something, he never asks about everything, but scolds me. "I'm pregnant and can't be angry, so I've been holding on.". The child was born, and she was a daughter. Her mother-in-law looked unhappy, but she didn't say anything. She took care of me and helped me take care of the baby.
As soon as the child was one year old, my mother-in-law asked me to have another child, give birth to a grandson, and extend the incense to his family. What she said was so direct that I didn't hear her very well, and she obviously preferred boys over girls. "But my husband is willing to let me stop thinking about work and take care of my children at home.". "I'm worried about having another daughter, but my mother-in-law said, 'How can you possibly know if you're not born?'". My father-in-law doesn't care about this kind of thing. My mother-in-law and my husband are on the same front, and I compromise.
During preparation for pregnancy, my mother-in-law went around asking for prescriptions for her son. It was like going crazy and giving me some folk recipes. If I didn't want her to quarrel with me, she would argue with me. She finally conceived a child before stopping this behavior. In October, when I was pregnant, I gave birth to a child, who was a son. My mother-in-law smiled and couldn't close her mouth. "But my weight has gained over 20 pounds, and my bloated figure makes me feel very inferiority complex. What's more serious is the color spots on my face, which are getting heavier and getting sallow.".
"I want to lose weight, but my mother-in-law told me to wean myself. I have to bear it for the sake of the child.". "Two children are completely different from one another, and I'm so busy that I'm overwhelmed.". At this stage, my attention to my husband has decreased significantly. "Every day when he gets home and teases the children, he hides in his study and watches the computer, saying he's working. I don't know exactly what he's doing.". "I have worked hard to lose weight, and despite my hard work, the effect has not been significant.". I gave up and focused on taking care of my two babies.
Unconsciously, I found that my husband's attitude towards me was getting worse and worse, with almost no sexual life and little communication. "He became increasingly angry, and one day, he filed for a divorce on the grounds that I am not in the same dimension as him now, and there is no relationship between husband and wife. He feels like living with a nanny again.".
"I was stunned. Afterwards, he didn't come home every day and gave me cold and violent treatment. I couldn't stand it. I stalked him and found him cuddling with a sexy woman.". At that moment, my heart died, and in order to satisfy the wishes of him and his mother-in-law, I disregarded my image and eventually received the news of his cheating. "I cried without tears, and confided to my mother-in-law, who blamed me for" my own man, I didn't take good care of myself, no wonder others. ". God, why is this family so cold? What should I do?
Once a woman gives birth to a child, the gap between her husband and her husband becomes larger and larger. First, having a baby, your focus is on the child. Children need to be taken care of 24 hours a day. You can't get away from them, and naturally you can't pay attention to your husband; Second, the time spent caring for children cannot allow you to dress up. Being too untidy can make your husband lose interest in you. Over time, he will seek another life. At this time, the phenomenon of third-party involvement is very serious.
Women should maintain their proper temperament no matter when they are. "You can't be busy. You have your mother-in-law and husband. Let them take care of your child for you. The child is not yours alone, and they have an obligation to take care of it.". By forming habits, you can spare time and take care of yourself. If you give up on yourself, let alone let your husband cherish you?
Now that he's cheating, you can have a good talk with him. If you get divorced, you'll be separated from your children. Even if he remarries, may it be good for your own flesh and blood? In the future, your husband's life will be difficult due to conflicts over children. Talk to him about the troubles after divorce, and learn to dress up and improve your temperament. Even if you want a divorce, you should transform yourself and make him regret it.