In love, please don't be lazy!
Have you noticed?
The feeling of love always feels sweet at the beginning,
I always feel like having more people to accompany and share with you,
You are no longer alone, at least one person is thinking of you
Falling in love with you, no matter what you do,
As long as we can be together, it's good.
But gradually, as we got to know each other better,
You're starting to notice the other person's shortcomings,
So problems arose one after another,
You start to get bored, tired, and even want to escape,
Some people say that love is like picking up stones,
Always wanting to find something suitable for oneself,
But how do you know when you can pick it up?
TA is suitable for you, but are you suitable for TA?
In fact, love is like grinding stones,
Perhaps when you first found it, you were not so satisfied,
But remember that people are resilient,
Many things can be changed,
Instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere,
It's better to polish the stones you already have,
Have you started grinding yet?
Many people think it's because the relationship has faded,
So talent becomes lazy.
Wrong!
In fact, humans were first conquered by inertia,
That's why emotions fade.
On a gathering occasion,
Some people suggest that eating more shrimp is good for your health,
At this moment, a middle-aged man suddenly said:
Ten years ago, when my wife was still my girlfriend,
She said she wants to eat ten shrimp, so I'll peel twenty for her!
Now, if she wants me to help her shell her shrimp, I'm joking!
I'm not even interested in helping her undress anymore, and I'm peeling shrimp shells
Do you hear me? See?
No wonder more and more people just want to have a lifelong relationship,
But he refused to enter marriage for a long time.
Because marriage can easily make people lazy.
If everyone
Lazy to speak, lazy to listen
Lazy to create surprises, lazy to be gentle and considerate,
So whether it's between husband and wife or boyfriend and girlfriend,
How could it not gradually fade away and become silent?
So please remember:
A vibrant love,
It requires moderate and diligent irrigation,
When it comes to dating, one should not be lazy!
There is a couple who have an appointment to have dinner and go shopping after work,
But the girl was delayed due to the company meeting,
When she arrived in the rain, she was already over 30 minutes late,
His boyfriend was very unhappy and said:
You always do this, and now I'm in no mood at all,
I will never wait for you again!
In an instant, the girl finally burst the embankment and collapsed,
She was thinking to herself: perhaps they have no future anymore.
Same in the same location,
Another couple is also facing the same situation;
When the girl arrived, she was also half an hour late,
His boyfriend said, "I think you must be busy
Then he wiped the rain off the girl's face,
And take off the coat and cover it on the girl,
At this moment, the girl shed tears,
But the tears that flowed through her cheeks were warm.
Have you experienced it?
Actually, love and hate are often just between our thoughts!
Love not only requires tolerance, but also timeliness,
Many things may just be due to a change in your mood!
Do you understand?
When someone falls in love with you and you also think they are good.
That doesn't mean you will choose him.
We always say:
I need to find someone I love very much before I can fall in love
But when the other person asks you, what is it to be very loving,
But you can't answer him because you don't know it yourself.
That's right, we always thought,
We will find someone we love very much.
But later, when we suddenly looked back,
Only then will we realize how innocent we used to be.
If it never starts,
How do you know if you really love that person?
In fact, I really love the feeling of love,
It's only after experiencing many things together that we realize it.
Perhaps everyone hopes to find their ideal 100% partner,
But have you ever thought about:
Will someone have been silently giving you something for a long time by your side,
Just didn't you realize it?
So, let's take a closer look at the people around us!
TA may have been waiting for you for a long time,
When you love someone,
It's definitely just right to love someone to eight cents.
All expectations and hopes are only seven or eight points;
Leave two or three points to love yourself.
If you continue to love more,
It is likely to put heavy pressure on the other party,
Make each other gasp for breath,
Completely lost the joy of love.
So please remember:
Don't drink more than six times drunk,
Eat no more than seven percent full,
Don't love someone more than eight points.
If you are also lost in love,
Perhaps the following paragraph can give you some inspiration:
Love someone,
To understand, also to understand;
Apologize and express gratitude;
Admit your mistakes and correct them as well;
Be considerate and considerate;
Accept, not endure;
It is tolerance, not indulgence;
It is support, not domination;
It is sympathy, not questioning;
It's a confession, not a complaint;
It is unforgettable, not forgotten;
It's about communicating with each other, not explaining everything;
It is silently praying for the other party,
Instead of making numerous demands from the other party;
Romantic, but not wasteful;
Since you're holding hands, don't let go!