Post Date December, 03 2023
If you know where to go, the whole world will give in for you
Love can't stand scrutiny, but you should believe in love
No matter how many betrayals you have encountered, how many departures you have experienced, and how many people have hurt you on the emotional road, please believe in love. No matter whether you are 20, 30, 40... no matter how many times your true feelings have been betrayed, as long as you are still eager to love and be loved, please believe in love.
Love is a matter that can't stand careful consideration. Once it is considered, it will be full of holes. But only when we believe in happiness can happiness come; Believe in love, love will be close.
I remember that when I first came out to look for a job after graduation from college, I was tired and couldn't find a job I liked and satisfied with. I was very frustrated, painful and frustrated every day. A female classmate called me and told me, "Don't be too negative and sad. Life is what you want it to be. I always think things are good. I always tell myself to be happy and happy. The result is good. I also live very sunny."
On second thought, love is not like this. It is what we think of it in our hearts.
However, we have seen too many other people's opening and closing, and also experienced too much gratitude and resentment, and we are afraid from the heart. There was a girl who always sent me text messages in the middle of the night, saying that she was afraid, that she was afraid to love and accept. So, some stories have retreated before they started; Some words died out in my heart before I could say them.
When I first graduated, a friend who had been in love for many times told me that he would no longer believe in love. He said that a friend of their dormitory had talked with his girlfriend for three years, and finally broke up. They all said that they fell in love when they were in college, and the day they graduated was the day they broke up. But the couple had a very good relationship, and they were his favorite couple. He thought they would go on, but finally they separated. He said that when he no longer believed in love, his eyes were firm and sad. But two years later, he fell in love again.
He said, "May Day, I'm getting married. Are you coming to the wedding?" I told him that he once said he no longer believed in love. He was surprised that he didn't remember saying such words.
People are sensitive and always choose to hide after being injured. People are also naturally suspicious. After experiencing and seeing betrayal and feeling uneasy, they are not willing to believe again.
How many times have we brushed past the people we like because of cowardice; How many times have we refused the chance of happiness because of fear; How many times have we not even said the word "like" because of dodge and fear.
We would rather endure the pain of loss and missing, rather endure the suffering of missing and loneliness, than take the step of defense at the bottom of our hearts to trust each other, love, or just ourselves.
There are so many different opinions about love. In a period of time, someone told us not to look for it, but to wait. The real fate will come to you sooner or later. You just have to do yourself well. In another period of time, some people told us that if you like it, you should take the initiative to fight for it. Do you want to watch the person you like with others?
We sometimes believe in the former, sometimes acquiesce in the latter, and sometimes we don't believe anything. However, after reading so many love theories and stories, we should have understood that love has no written rules, just as life has no written rules. It is not the words in the book or other people's stories that can grasp and dominate love, but yourself.
Believe that as long as you look up at the sky happily, as long as you still choose to believe in love, fate will never treat you badly.
What we often have to do is forgive others and let ourselves go. True love is never too late. True love will come on the premise that you still have love in your heart, and you are still kind and believe in beauty.
The journey of life, when someone leaves, someone comes
People will meet many people in their life, and it is rare to meet a bosom friend who is congenial to themselves and talks about everything. And no matter how time goes by and how the place is changed, this person can still get along with you as good as ever, which is worth cherishing.
At the end of 2013, Y and I met again in Beijing. We have known each other for seven years.
In our three-year career in high school, we have been together day and night.
Later, as a result of going to college, we were both in the south and the north. In the past four years, we have lived in different cities and lived different lives. We seldom met or communicated with each other. Some things are like this. Once you got along day and night, had meals and classes together, and even had to find each other during the winter and summer holidays. Once separated, but gradually no longer connected. But when I met with Y in Beijing this time, I was more determined. He is the most trusted friend of the opposite sex in my life.
In high school, boys were in the rebellious period of youth, while girls had many beautiful dreams about the world. I will also fantasize that I am the heroine of Korean dramas, and one day the story of Cinderella and Prince Charming will be staged. It is also often imagined that the protagonist in the novel runs away regardless of everything, and in a strange place, he happens to be on the bright road of life by chance.
At that time, we loved to maximize our sadness. It was better to let people see your sad eyes at a glance. You are different from others. Although, I don't know whether my eyes were blue at that time, and whether I really showed a melancholy and unique image to others. But now I think it was really a naive and naive time.
At that time, Y and I almost walked around our town. We often slip away from school and go to the river or the road to talk. Talk about family, ideal, life, past, present and future.
I remember that the high school teacher once said that the friends I know in high school are the most precious and lifelong, which is worth believing. I remember at that time, no matter where Y went and who he knew, he would mention me to his friends. He said that I am a person who can write and will become a great writer in the future. No matter who he met, he said how special I am.
I know that my writing career is just beginning to explore, and there is nothing special about it. Y is proud of having a friend like me, and I feel lucky. Even, most of the time, I am working hard for his move.
In my unfortunate life, I can meet a person who can get along with me in life and be with me in the spiritual world. I have to say that this is God's favor for me.
Many years have passed, and we have not always lived in the same city, but we still live in each other's lives, and we still have nothing to talk about and still know each other. I believe that with the passage of time, we will become intimate old friends. Like those elders, they have known each other since they were young, and have been accompanying their old friends for decades in their lives.
After returning from Beijing, Y called me. He said he could see that I had a very difficult life. This is the second time to see Y again.
The first time was on the night I received him, I took him to a party with my classmates. In the noisy box of KTV, he leaned over me and said, "Don't let you be alone anymore".
In the difficult and bitter years, I am so lucky to have such a friend and meet him again. Can give me intimate greetings and real warmth. It is often because we have such friends that we are not afraid to walk the long road of life and the bumps and thorns on the road of life, right?
I know that he will eventually go, leave my path and live his own life. There is no eternal company in the world. Y called and said that he admired me very much. In a city like Beijing, he insisted on his dream and had such great courage in life. Just this sentence, I know that we will have a different way.
However, when you think about it carefully, life is ultimately a journey for one person. On the way we are relentlessly pursuing our ideals, everyone is walking alone, and some people will come close to us and gradually leave us. They have their own life and world, as if they have nothing to do with us. But the hearts that have been close to each other should not be strangers because of the long journey.
Therefore, may we not feel sad for parting and passing away. We will always meet people who know you, know you, and give you warmth and trust.
