Post Date December, 02 2023
1. Dare to make decisions -- overcome the habit of hesitation
The biggest problem that many people fail to achieve anything is that they lack the means to make decisions. They always look around and think before and after, thus missing the best opportunity for success. When they see the possibility of success, they dare to make major decisions, so they get the first chance.
2. Challenge your weaknesses - completely change your weaknesses
Everyone has weaknesses. Those who can't achieve great things always stick to their weaknesses and will not make major changes in their lives; Those who can achieve great things are always good at starting from their own weaknesses and turning themselves into a person with super ability. A person who can't even correct his own defects can only be a loser!
3. Break through the dilemma - to extract successful capital from failure
Life is always faced with challenges of various dilemmas, which can even be said to be a "dead door". Ordinary people will tremble in front of difficulties, while those who accomplish great things can turn difficulties into powerful springboards for success.
4. Seize opportunities -- being good at choosing and creating opportunities is the greatest wealth in life. Some people waste opportunities easily, so opportunities with great potential slip away quietly, and major events are absolutely not allowed to slip away, and can jump at opportunities.
5. Give play to your strengths - do what you are best at
A person with extremely weak ability must be the victim of a heavyweight player on the stage of life; The great achievers should fully exert their talents and broaden the path of success step by step.
6. Adjust your mind - never let your emotions hurt you
People with a negative attitude can't bear the burden of life in any case, because they can't face the setbacks in life, while those who achieve great things can see the light of success even when there is no hope.
7. Take immediate action -- it's useless to talk without doing
One action is better than a hundred thoughts. Some people are "giants of language and dwarfs of action", so they can't see more practical things happen to them; Those who accomplish great things implement their life plans by actions every day.
8. Be good at communication - skillfully use human resources
A person who does not know how to communicate will inevitably promote the power of interpersonal relationships. One of the characteristics of successful people is that they are good at creating successful situations by relying on force and heat, so that they can accomplish things that are difficult to accomplish and realize their own life plans.
9. Re-planning -- stand at a higher starting point
Life is a process, and success is also a process. If you are satisfied with small success, you will promote big success. Those who have accomplished great things understand the hard process from small to large, so after achieving small successes, they can continue to open the "sealed bag" of the next life.
It can be said that any means can lead to a result, but it is hard to say whether this result is the best. Those who accomplish great things always choose the best means to achieve the most perfect results, which is what ordinary people can do. So on the way to success, if you want to achieve great things, the first problem to be solved is: whether your means have an immediate effect on your plan to promote success!
Nine abilities necessary to accomplish great things
1. Ability to challenge survival: be good at finding answers in reality, put your mind in the right place, and dare to face reality
For those who constantly complain about the bad reality, the unsatisfied reality is like the cage of life, which not only restricts hands and feet, but also the body and mind. Therefore, they often succumb to the pressure of reality and become cowards; Those who really accomplish great things dare to challenge reality and hone their survival ability in reality, which is called the strong!
Here, we can draw a great experience: to adapt to the changes in reality and quickly change our ideas, the most important thing is that we need to have a pair of intelligent minds and flexible eyes, and be conscientious people in life.
Under the pressure of reality, if you can change your ideas and make progress in time, you can get twice the result with half the effort.
Our bottom-up cannot be separated from reality for a moment. With the change of reality, we must adjust our ideas, thoughts, actions and goals accordingly. This is necessary for survival. If we have a way to change the reality and adapt it to the development needs of our ability and desire, it is the most valuable.
2. Let you have excellent self-control ability
Self-control is to overcome desire. Don't be impetuous because of a little pressure, and lose temper when encountering something unsatisfactory. A person cannot control others unless he controls himself first. As long as a person has the goal of achieving great things, knows what he wants, and then takes action, and tells himself never to give up. Success is only a matter of time. If you encounter trouble or obstacles on the way, you should face it, solve it, and then move on, so that the problems will not accumulate.
When you are climbing up step by step, don't say "no" to yourself, because "no" may cause you to waver in your determination, give up your goal, and lose all your previous achievements.
The most difficult thing for a person to overcome is himself. This means that the biggest obstacle to a person's success is not from the outside world, but from himself. Only by controlling yourself can you control the pressure and let it yield before you.
3. Putting emotion into the box of reason is often a kind of resistance, but its impact on human life is huge, which is reflected in many small things. We should try our best to eliminate our bad mood, because it will not only cause physical and psychological damage to us, but also sometimes become a stumbling block on our way to success. For your success, you must put your emotions into the box of reason. You must adapt to others and the situation. Otherwise, you are doomed to fail and be eliminated.
4. Solitude can stimulate the power of thinking
If you know how to be alone, the people who accomplish great things are good at being alone - they stimulate the power of thinking in the process of being alone. Self-abasement can overwhelm people like a mountain and keep you silent forever, or it can generate powerful power like a propeller. One step ahead of others can create a successful mood. When you are alone, you should think about it. Don't always overshadow things.
5. Pressure is the best driving force
For those who want to achieve great things, the pressure may be greater because of their high goals. But if you want to achieve great things, you must be able to bear the pressure and take the pressure as the driving force to promote life. People's best work is often done outside of adversity. If you want to do something, you have to do something. What should be done must be done well, and what should not be done must not be done. What you get is not necessarily worth celebrating, and what you lose is not entirely bad.
6. Only by changing and changing can we have a way out
Adapting to the current situation, being good at changing, and adjusting their own action plans in time is a way for those who achieve great things to adapt to reality. If a person does not have superb skills in dealing with people, a well-considered mind and flexible means to cope with all situations, he will not be able to control the big situation and will be difficult to achieve great things.
A person who can see his own current situation will have a lot of balance in his mind. He can look at the world with an objective view, understand the world, and adjust his behavior accordingly.
7. Self-confidence is a strong pillar of life
Those with sufficient self-confidence have high adaptability, while those with low self-confidence have low adaptability.
Generally, people with serious lack of confidence often have some physical and mental symptoms, such as loneliness, fear of interacting with others, extreme speech, pessimism and disappointment. If you have more successful experience, you will have more confidence. The less opportunities for self-successful exercise, the weaker self-confidence, and thus the serious inferiority complex.
Emerson, a thinker in the 19th century, said, "If you believe in yourself, you will conquer everything." Napoleon said, "There is no impossibility in my dictionary."
8. Put your energy into your strengths
Most people only stay at the level of life: eating for dinner, taking the bus, working for work, and going home for home.
Great achievers and non great achievers differ only in a few small actions: spend 5 minutes a day reading, make an extra phone call, work harder, spend more time on a presentation, performance at an appropriate time, do more research, or experiment more in the laboratory.
Before you act, you know whether you are competent for this task.
There is no excuse to explain why you are still incompetent for a long time. No matter what you want to pursue, you must force yourself to strengthen your ability to achieve your goal. Practice more, practice more, and finally practice more! Never give up learning, and must apply the learned knowledge to daily life.
9. We should concentrate on doing a good job
If most people concentrate on a job, they can do it well. The most successful businessmen are those who can make decisions quickly and decisively. They always set a clear goal first and concentrate on working towards it.
Only concentrate on one thing at a time, put your heart and soul into it and actively hope it will succeed, so your heart will not feel exhausted. Think of what you need to do as a small drawer in a large row of drawers. Don't always think about all the drawers, but concentrate on the drawer you have opened. Everyone has different means of doing things. It can be said that one person has one means and one way to succeed by his own means. Numerous facts have shown that some people are just too confident and miss that the means they confirm can solve any problem, but do not know that this often does not work. Therefore, they always feel that they are not getting closer to the goal of success, but actually getting farther and farther away.
