Sexual infidelity can be said to be a barrier between men and women, as long as one partner cheats, it is difficult for the other to accept. In modern society, incidents of men cheating are often heard of. Men's infidelity is not traceable, let's take a look at the signs of men's infidelity.
Misconduct phenomenon 1: Sudden increase in expenses
After infidelity, it is necessary to have a candlelight dinner, send roses, and drink coffee in order to please a man, in order to reflect his gentlemanly demeanor and romance. What is romance? It's just wasting credit card numbers with a girl, making it less volatile. This is a compulsory course for men in the field of love. It's a small idea, even a small expense can't be borne. How could a girl be willing to be romantic with you? Why should someone play a love game with a married man like you that has no ending or status? Encountering girls with high material requirements, such as houses and sports cars, one cannot be missing.
The man had to desperately save up private money in order to keep this romantic period. In the past, even if the money generously given to my wife was still given to her, how much reluctance do I have in my heart? Only he knows. If men do not have extra income, they usually use various excuses not to give their wages to their wives in full; If there is extra income, men won't be as foolish as before - leaving everything to their wives. Some men even hesitate to quit smoking and drinking.
Misconduct phenomenon 2: Frequent overtime
A man who has an affair needs to spend time with his lover outside of work, savoring the enchantment and beauty of warm and fragrant jade, and naturally cannot go home on time with his wife. Of course, the wife will make phone calls, send text messages, and question the man why he hasn't come home so late and who he is with.
Men usually answer shamelessly, 'Overtime.'.
At first, my wife painfully instructed me to remember to eat dinner at work. However, as the number of overtime increases, the wife becomes suspicious. A man will immediately make a face of grievance: Am I working so hard and working overtime to make life better for you and your children? How about I stay at home with you every day and you come to earn money to support me!
Most wives feel a sense of self blame when they hear a man's words, thinking that they misunderstood their husband.
The man saw his wife dispel his suspicion and went home to accompany her several times, coaxing her into ecstasy and continuing to work overtime outside.
Misconduct phenomenon 3: too much socializing
These days, men with a little skill like to socialize outside. For men, socializing is both dignified and glamorous. It seems that without socializing, it is not enough to prove a man's ability or success in his career. Women also tend to prefer men with social skills. Such a man is likely to earn money and provide sufficient material guarantees for her and her children's lives.
So, smart men will dress up in the guise of socializing and openly engage in extramarital affairs outside. When my wife began to resent him constantly socializing outside every night, the man's defense was more convincing than anyone else: you thought I was willing to do this. Then, taking my brother-in-law, my wife's biological brother, as an example, he went home every day after work for less than 1000 yuan a month. He always searched for groceries, cut back on food and clothing, and didn't save enough money for his child's college expenses. My wife scolded him every day as a scumbag. Do you want me to be that kind of man? If you wish, I will stay at home from tomorrow after work and cook, wash dishes, and do laundry for you.
Upon hearing this, the wife immediately ran out of electricity. Before hanging up the phone, she gently advised the man to eat more vegetables and drink less alcohol. The man took the thread and was so happy that with a little wisdom, he could take care of his wife's heart.
When couples are together, it is advisable to carefully observe the men around them. If these situations occur, they may be involved in infidelity. Misconduct is the biggest threat to marriage, and men are also expected to pay attention to their behavior and keep their families.