I went to great lengths to get divorced in order to marry the leader's daughter. When I was penniless, my ex wife's behavior made me feel ashamed

Lin is my first wife, and we went to college together. She is a striking campus couple. Lin belongs to the school flower level. I am not good at words, but I can get her recognition from her pursuers. She said that I am honest and even if I cannot be wealthy or wealthy in the future, as long as the friendship between two people is with her, there is hope. During her speech, her innocent smile was so sweet in my heart.

After graduation, we had several arguments about which city to work in and almost broke up. Her family is from Shandong, and my family is from Jiangsu. Lin's parents do not want her daughter to leave them and insist on allowing her to develop locally. I am a handsome seven foot man, full of hot water and eager to stand firm in the big city, so I did not compromise. Finally, for the sake of love, she gave up her parents and came with me to Shanghai for development. I was very moved. After graduation, I made a romantic proposal to her, and we got married smoothly afterwards.

After getting married, we bought a house in our hometown Jiangsu and rented a small house in Shanghai, starting our married life. Living is a long and narrow process. In addition to the monthly living expenses, we also have to pay the mortgage and rent. We live very frugally. After working hard in Shanghai for three years, there hasn't been much improvement. During this period, my wife became pregnant and continued to give birth, all of which were spent in my hometown. I worked alone and when I got tired and sleepy, I played videos to my wife and children. When the child was older, Lin returned to Shanghai and found a job with a monthly salary of 4000 yuan. She lived frugally and didn't even have decent clothes.

My fifth year of marriage was also the peak of my career, and my leader valued me very much and entrusted me with his wealth. I didn't consider abandoning my marriage, however, as time passed, when the leader's daughter confessed to me, I was completely bewildered. I tried to refuse, but had no dream of resisting her temptation. She said that her father is very wealthy. In addition to working here, she also has several houses at home. If we were to rent a house, we would no longer have to suffer, and in our career, she could help me get promoted faster and more steadily.

I didn't take her words seriously, but when I heard the words' promotion ', I actually hit the spot. She is about seven years younger than me and looks only twenty-three or four, with a youthful aura on her face. She is obsessed with watching Korean dramas and often imitates the people in them calling me "Oba", taking me to high-end restaurants for meals, giving me designer watches and clothes, all of which I secretly made without my wife's knowledge. I was captivated by material desires and obedient to her words, even when she asked me to divorce.

In order to maintain my reputation and not be caught cheating by my wife, I put in a lot of effort. She often got drunk and verbally attacked her, playing mahjong until late at night, lying in bed with a smoky smell, deliberately ignoring her, and so on. Eventually, she couldn't help but ask me for a divorce, and I secretly felt happy. I became a couple with the leader's daughter as I wished, but not long after, the leader actually investigated me, learned about my situation, questioned my character, and even fired me. They forced me to separate from his daughter, but the girl didn't say a word for me. Later, I heard that she had a new date again.

In this way, everything started all over again, and I returned to my previous life, including mortgage, rent, living expenses, and having to support my children. I was the only one who came home from work alone. Once drunk, I dialed my ex-wife's phone number and wept about my current situation. Unexpectedly, a few days later she found me and gave me a card, saying that it contained 200000 yuan, which was her savings over the years. I was greatly flattered, and her subsequent words made me feel inferior.

She said that my parents are getting old and my children also need to go to school. Going home to start a small business with family is better than being alone outside. Let me use this money first, so it's like borrowing it from her. He is not for me, but for our children. I treated her like that, but she still treated me well as always. I really feel that I am not worthy of being a person. After she gave me the money, she left and sincerely felt sorry for her ex-wife. I really want to remarry her, I don't know if she is willing to accept me.

Reply from Weiqing Consultant:

Your betrayal has made your life a mess. Your ex wife has no background and cannot help you, so you abandon her without knowing where your conscience lies. Now that you are so lonely, she still helps you because she doesn't want the child to suffer. In fact, her inner desire is to cheer you up. As for remarriage, I personally feel that it's not the right time for you to mention it now. She helped you, and you think of her kindness. However, your betrayal back then did not care about her feelings at all, and her hatred towards you can be imagined. I suggest you start your career well and let her see your achievements. If you have a heart, if she has a heart, you may still get together again. However, in the current situation, I suggest not to disturb your ex-wife. Good luck.