"I was mistaken for living on my wife's salary, and I can't stand being accused of cheating."

It is universally acknowledged that the wife is a capable woman. She is very sensitive to numbers and has a strong memory. She can always handle small details that others cannot find. She works as a sales manager in a company, and I am an administrative director in a company. We were brought together by friends. We felt that we could talk well, so we tried to talk about love. It took a year from love to marriage.

After marriage, the financial power was handed over to my wife. She was smart and capable, and I believe she can manage it well. As soon as I paid my salary, I handed it to her. We plan to change to a larger house in another two years. "I don't want to be rich or wealthy, but I just want to live a flat and light life. I can't resist the intrigues in the workplace. As an executive, I'm doing my job steadily and reliably, and my salary is not high, but I also have more than enough to compete with my peers.". My thoughts do not represent my wife's, she likes to be an official and enjoy the feeling of being high above others. Therefore, she constantly climbed up to the position of marketing director.

My wife is astute and capable, and her wish to change to a big house soon came true. She doesn't require me to be strong, just having a pillar in her family is enough. She says she's a workaholic, and she's used to the sense of accomplishment of winning projects. As for my career, she won't interfere. I'm glad she thinks so. I'm a bit introverted and not social. I like cooking and cleaning at home, a bit like a housewife.

The wife has a free and easy personality, surrounded by a group of friends. Occasionally, some friends come to visit my family. They are very satisfied with the food I cooked and my wife's face is shining. However, as her aura grew stronger and stronger, she gradually looked down upon me and often flaunted her great achievements in front of outsiders. Some flatterers secretly said that I was a man who ate soft bread.

"That time, she opened a park at home, and after the end, I was quietly tidying up the room. She and her friends were chatting in the bedroom. I was going to give them fruit to eat. As soon as I tried to open the door, I heard her and her friends talking about me, 'This kind of man can't make money, but it's very useful to be a servant...'" After that, they looked at each other and smiled, and my wife even smiled back and forth. ". "At that time, I felt my face turn red, and I quickly ran to the other room, fearing that they would find me hearing.".

After that time, I was so disgusted with my wife that I even saw her and thought of the scene that day when they laughed at me. Later, I had an affair and chatted very happily with a woman online. I told her about my troubles, and we also made an appointment to meet and open a room. In this woman online friend, I found the dignity and confidence of a man, and I enjoyed this feeling. However, I know this is not a long-term solution. If one day such behavior is discovered, it will definitely be spurned by others. However, I don't know exactly how to go.

Reply from the maintenance consultant:

Hello. Living a life is a matter for two people. My wife has a stronger earning ability than you, and it's inevitable that outsiders will gossip. We can't control the gossip outside, so we need to control our emotions. Living in negative emotions can only make you treat life negatively. As you said, self-esteem is hurt, and you find confidence in a third person, which is a corrupt practice.

If you love your wife, you should not care about the eyes of others. When the knot cannot be opened, you can communicate with your wife and use infidelity to release inner injustice. This practice is a fatal injury to your marriage. I advise you to return to your family early and cherish your wife well. I wish you happiness.