I tried my best to marry into a wealthy family, but was brutally abandoned by my wealthy husband

During my college years, like most girls, I wanted to find a wealthy owner and become a wealthy wife. Counting money made my hands ache, and I didn't look at the price when buying things. If I liked it, I would take it away. This princess like life is simply too beautiful. I never feel like a gold digger, but I dream of a gold digger. After graduation, I entered society, facing the hardships of work and the boredom of life. I am particularly eager to have a home for myself. After wandering for a few years, my sisters around me got married one after another, and my heart began to become restless.

My parents have been urging me to find a boyfriend as soon as possible, and they have also taken a lot of trouble for me at home. My mother has sent people around to introduce me to people, and I have about twenty blind dates in total, but I don't look up to any of them. The boys my age are either too naive or too arrogant, far from my ideal partner. Seeing myself turning 26, I am also very anxious.

His appearance gave me hope, maturity, gentlemanly, generous, and more importantly, he has money and a good impression of me. After getting familiar with him, I found out that he had a marriage before, but he didn't tell me the specific reason. He is well maintained and cannot tell his age. I accidentally saw his ID card and realized that he is fifteen years older than me, but I don't care.

In order to create a warm and romantic atmosphere for him, he also specialized in cooking, learning from the little women on TV, playing coquettish and making him happy. He was indeed conquered by me, giving me precious clothes, jewelry, and even a luxury car. I can't believe I have this fate. I took him home to meet his parents, but he put on the airs of a wealthy man, which my parents couldn't bear. They told me behind my back that they wanted me to break up with him and said I couldn't control him.

I don't care about these things, this is the life I pursue, I want to achieve what I want. After dating for a year and a month, we entered the palace of marriage. A luxurious wedding, my friends were almost crying with envy, flattering me to the death, and praising my good fortune. However, the brilliance of marriage contrasts greatly with my married life. I have indeed lived a life of food and clothing, but my cage like marriage has also begun.

He didn't allow me to work, arranged a nanny beside me to take care of my daily life. I had to report all my itineraries to him, and he would suddenly offer to take me to a dinner party. No matter how late it was, as long as he spoke, I had to appear in front of him. There is also my mother-in-law who is always picky about me, constantly beating around the bush and scolding me as a poor ghost and fox spirit, seducing his son, constantly picking on me, and making bad remarks about me in front of my husband.

My husband is getting more and more excessive. Every time I argue with my mother-in-law, he scolds me for not being filial, eating and drinking from him, and he should listen to his words. I endured, endured the humiliation my mother-in-law gave me, endured the roar of my husband. I thought giving him a baby would calm his mind. But when I got pregnant, his reaction was very ordinary, without the excitement of his father. Afterwards, he rarely went home because he didn't refuse and catered to various women around him who were flattered by the money.

When I was seven or eight months old, he still went his own way and stayed overnight with other women outside. I finally managed to give birth, and my suppressed anger erupted. I advise him to take it easy and not to be so unrestrained. He sneered and said, "What else can you do with me? Do you want a divorce? I don't care. Remind you not to take away every penny of your family when you leave

I can hear the piercing words in my heart. Why do I treat him like this, but he still wants to abandon me. I inquired about his first marriage, which could also be caused by his infidelity. Looking at the baby in its swaddling clothes, my heart was in turmoil. The good day I was pursuing turned out to be like this. Where should I go after my husband's ruthless abandonment?

reply:

You are unwilling to be an ordinary person, and it can be said that you have put in a lot of effort to live a prosperous life. You have put all your effort into obtaining his person, and now the unevenness of marriage has made him reveal his original nature. He thinks that having money is heaven, and he can act recklessly without being constrained, but he doesn't know that as a husband, he should shoulder the responsibility towards his wife.

Anyway, as his wife, you should do what his wife should do. Treating him and his family with inferiority will only make them look down upon them even more. Don't think their family has money, so you have to grovel. As the mistress of this family, you should show your momentum, and the weaker you are, the easier you are to be bullied.

For your husband's behavior, if you want to continue, talk to him well and let him understand his responsibility. If he is not aware of his mistake, then turning around and leaving is your right choice. Simply choosing to tolerate will only cause you greater humiliation.