I supported my poor husband to start a business. He made me go. One year later, he begged me to remarry

I don't know if you have this feeling. When you pay for someone completely new, he betrays you. Without him, you will find that you have nothing but heartbreak.

My husband and I are in love on campus. In our school days, that kind of green and pure love is really beautiful. I was born in an only child family, and my parents gave birth to such a precious daughter. Unlike him, he lives in a small county, with an unmarried sister and a junior high school sister. The family of five is under great pressure on his parents. He never dared to ask his parents for pocket money easily. He has always worked part-time to earn extra money to support himself.

I appreciate his backbone. I don't care about his family. Who said that family differences are barriers to love? I don't believe it. I am stubborn and start the reverse mode of women chasing men. He has some inferiority complex and dare not approach me. I put aside the reserve of girls, invite him to dinner, watch movies, take the initiative to ask him out, and say that I like him in the open and in the dark. My sincerity moved him. He vowed to marry me no matter how difficult it was in the future. I was moved to tears after hearing this.

Of course, when I got married, my parents had a hard time. I gave him confidence. He negotiated with my parents alone and firmly said that he would not marry anyone except me. He also talked about ideals and future with my father. My father praised me for finding a "boy who is poor and ambitious". I couldn't laugh or cry. I didn't know whether he was praising me or hurting me. Finally, my parents agreed to our marriage, gave me 100000 yuan to make a dowry, and gave me the money. Keep the flowers for myself, and don't tell my husband. I know my parents are afraid that I will suffer from them.

After getting married, my husband began to make money by all means. He and his friends planned to set up a joint venture. Working day and night, I sleep in the factory when I am tired. Sometimes I am too busy to eat a meal a day. When I am short of money, I raise money everywhere. I quietly take out the private money my parents gave me. He didn't want it. I forced it to him. He was moved to hold me. At that moment, I was very happy.

After several years of efforts, the benefits of the factory have become higher and higher, and our children have also been born, which is really a double blessing. Life is like a fish in water, not only bought a house, but also drove a car. Because I helped him start a business in recent years, I didn't pay attention to the maintenance of my skin at all, especially after giving birth to a baby, the freckles on my face became more obvious. In recent years, my husband has made a lot of money and socialized more. He often drinks late at night, and his beer belly is up.

I was worried about his health and advised him to drink less if he could. He was not very happy and said with a long face, "Just take care of the children. Don't worry about that much.". This attitude makes me feel very uncomfortable. I didn't pay attention to it, but I didn't expect that he would become more and more excessive in the future. He said that I was sloppy and didn't know how to clean up myself. People would laugh at him if he took it out. I admit that I haven't cleaned myself up in recent years, which is also due to him. During the entrepreneurial period, he didn't know that I was helping him?

When men have money, they will change. In his cell phone, I often see the phone of strange women. Sometimes, when I heard him talking to a woman on the phone and asked who was calling, he was calm and said it was a customer. Until that day, I saw a woman's earring in his car. I couldn't bear to go home and asked who it was. He didn't speak. I blocked the door to let him go. He pulled me away and threw me down on the sofa. Due to inertia, I hit the corner of the table and broke my head. He didn't pay any attention to me. I cried with pain.

The next day, he threw me a divorce agreement, asked me to sign the divorce, pack up and go away, and gave me 200000 yuan, of which 100000 yuan was the money he paid me for the establishment, and 100000 yuan was the money he compensated me. I have heard that. How can I say such a thing? We are a couple in need. Now he is developed and kicked me away? I refused to die. He stimulated me with photos of kissing with a third party. I slapped him angrily. Finally, I went back to my mother's house. After several years, I went back to the far point. I hate him and curse him for retribution.

It took me a year to change myself, go to the beauty shop, go to the gym, and improve my temperament. Some time ago, my husband contacted me, asked me for a cup of coffee, and brought the child to me for a look. When he talked about children, I felt sad again. After the divorce, I was afraid to see my children reluctant to part with me. I hadn't seen them for a year. Not seen in a year, he is much older and thinner.

He began to talk about a lot of unimportant topics, and finally he got to the point: after I left, the venue closed down, and he began to look for new projects. The third party, afraid of paying for water tickets, ran away with money. Now he works in a restaurant to support his children. I hope I can forgive him and give him a chance. I was shocked. Why do I always think of my good when I have nothing? I refused. He knelt down for me and said that the child missed his mother. When the child saw his husband kneeling down, he cried and took my hand and let me go back. My heart is beginning to soften again. How should I choose?

reply:

People always know how to cherish after losing. When he has no money, you give him a candy, and he feels sweet. When he has money, he abandons you cruelly and hurts your self-esteem. Now he is as poor as a lamb, and he thinks of a wife who is really good to him. It is suggested that we should be cautious about remarriage. Such a man can do such a heartless thing. Who knows how he will treat you after you go back. You should not let yourself suffer twice.

Calm down. If you have feelings for him and don't give up on the child, don't show it. Let him taste the heartache. I hope he can really reflect on himself and rebuild his family. You are now waiting for the change and making plans.