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I remarried and married Bai Fumei's charming wife. As the wedding approached, I learned the truth about her marrying me and wanted to divorce
A day of marriage is a hundred days of kindness, and I think it's too scary for women to launch a fierce attack. After my divorce, I went to Guangzhou alone to work and also met my second wife here.
Her family runs a noodle shop and accidentally eats their noodles, feeling a sense of hometown. Upon inquiry, she and I are from the same hometown and feel friendly. I often come and visit her shop, and we get to know each other. We often chat and joke together. Judging from her appearance, I am a few years older than her in my twenties, and there is no generation gap between the two.
Her name is Xiaoshan, and her name is very cute. I affectionately call her Shanshan. She first proposed the idea of two people falling in love. Due to the failure of the first marriage, I am very cautious and afraid of any further mistakes in the second marriage. Later on, I found out that this girl was very virtuous and not selfish. Her parents were doing business in their hometown. In recent years, she has opened a noodle shop and wants to invest in her parents' business after earning enough money, and then buy a house to live a down-to-earth life.
I think she is quite virtuous and has no ulterior motives. In that case, I also confessed to her about having a marriage history. She hesitated for a moment, hesitated to speak, and finally said, "It's okay, it's all over, I don't care. At that moment, I once again believed in the love that exists between men and women.
His parents are getting older and it is difficult to manage their business. We closed the noodle shop and focused on going home to help her parents. After meeting their parents, they saved the engagement ceremony and got a marriage certificate to prepare for the wedding. However, her conversation with the expectant mother made me wake up like a dream. During their conversation, I learned that Shanshan had reached the point of discussing marriage with a man and was pregnant with their child. Due to the man's infidelity before marriage, she had an unexpected miscarriage, and since then, she has gone her separate ways without any further involvement.
I was surprised to hear that although I was a second marriage, I never imagined her hiding anything. She didn't even mention such a big miscarriage. I thought she was a virtuous and kind woman, but now it doesn't seem like that. As the wedding approached, I hesitated and thought that she had lied to me and had been pregnant with someone else's child. My heart was suppressed, unable to calm down for a long time, and the idea of divorce erupted. What should I do?
Reply from Weiqing Consultant:
Everyone has their own privacy. Just because you proactively disclose your marriage history and be honest with each other doesn't mean everyone wants to uncover their scars again. She has a good family condition and is completely devoted to you. She doesn't dislike you, and it's a bit hasty for you to negate her kind nature because of her conversation with her mother. Having obtained a marriage certificate, one should live a good life. This kind of thing is not a glorious thing, do you think it would be better to talk about it? Furthermore, she has never been married, and you are a second marriage. She never leaves and never gives up. If you want to betray your faith, can you feel comfortable in your heart? It is recommended to think twice before acting, communicate more with your wife, and open your heart.