I ran into my ex-girlfriend at the party. I betrayed my marriage and rolled the sheets with her

After breaking up with my ex-girlfriend, I followed my parents' wishes and chose the way of blind date. I have lost my enthusiasm for love. After five years of love and running with her ex-girlfriend, she finally abandoned me. For me, no matter how good the relationship is, it is not worth the social reality. During the break up period, I especially hated her. I hated her vanity and her capriciousness.

Time is really a good medicine to heal wounds. The pain hidden in the heart of those years gradually faded with my wife and I getting married and having children. Now, I have played the role of father. The past memories have become blurred. In order to let my family live a carefree life, I came to Shanghai to work hard. She stayed in her hometown, Nantong, to work and take care of the baby.

My son is four years old this year. In a twinkling of an eye, my wife and I have been married for five years. In the past five years, we have often separated from each other. When I first got married, I looked forward to the arrival of the rest day so that I could get together with my wife and children. At that time, it was very difficult to get home. I squeezed the subway, the train, and the bus when I got off the train.

Later, I earned money to buy a car and went home to visit as soon as I was free. The distance is far away, and the couple can't have sex just because they want it. Sometimes, if they are depressed for a long time, they can just endure it. There is no feeling of looking forward to going back at the weekend. In the recent year, the company has opened a new project. Overtime on Saturday has become a routine. I go home less and less frequently. I think when I have a child, I will ask my wife to take him to Shanghai by car.

The originally peaceful and comfortable life was completely disturbed by my momentary confusion.

The project, which has been busy for a year, is finally over. In order to celebrate, the company provided funds for the event and let our employees have a dinner and sing K. After finishing the party to catch up with the weekend, the colleagues all shouted that they had no time to accompany their wife. Finally, they negotiated to take their wife with them. I called my wife to ask her to come to me in advance, but the child had a fever and she couldn't get away. She couldn't get away from her and had the following confused things

At the table, everyone was very happy. I was very disappointed to see their lovers sitting beside them. I didn't control it well. I had two more drinks, and then we went to ktv together. Coincidentally, I met my ex-girlfriend at the door of the ktv toilet. I was not embarrassed by the stimulation of alcohol. She took the initiative to talk, and I responded very well. He also led her to introduce to our colleagues that we had a lot of fun playing dice and singing love songs.

After that, I was going to call her a car to take her away, but she hugged me and kissed me, making me embarrassed. This kiss reminded me that when I fell in love with her, she held me in her arms and cried, murmuring and saying something. At that moment, the paralysis of alcohol made me forget my identity. I also responded to her. She was very comfortable with me. Maybe it was too long for me to have sex with her. That night, I had a very emotional night with her.

After waking up, she lay naked in my arms in the hotel. I apologized in a hurry, but she didn't care at all. She said that she would not pester me if you wanted to. After that, she did not bother me, but I was worried that one day she would tell my wife. How should I explain to her then? Now my wife is still good to me as always, but I betrayed her. How can I let go?

reply:

Now many people live separately from their wives and children for work. Although they keep in touch every day, long-term separation will still affect their parents' feelings. Especially in the aspect of marital sexual life, it is easy to go astray without a timely solution. Separated couples have a high probability of cheating.

If two people who do not live together choose to live together at the specified time, their living habits and tacit understanding will be greatly reduced. Over time, they will feel bored. Although your situation is a little better than long-term separation, weekend couples do not have an advantage in the current marriage relationship. Life is about interest. Once there is a problem with your relationship and it cannot be solved in time, the emotional barrier will become the fuse of your marriage conflict.

Without a sense of responsibility for marriage, it will be difficult to resist the temptation of the outside world and do things that hurt the wife and marriage. I would like to advise you to resolve the separation of your husband and wife as soon as possible, and not let the distance hinder the development of your relationship. Find a suitable opportunity to confess to your wife, care more about your wife, family, and take responsibility for your family.