Post Date December, 03 2023
My wife and I have been neighbors since childhood. During the school meeting, both parents often made fun of us. "The wife is intelligent and beautiful, and is indeed the best person to be a wife. However, the falling flower deliberately flows relentlessly.". After my wife had a boyfriend, I gave my blessings like a friend, but my heart was bleeding. Finally, the man went abroad to study and quickly got a girlfriend abroad, breaking up with his wife.
During that time, I was like an emotional trash can, appearing in front of my wife in time. "Either because we were moved, or because of the intentional marriage of our parents, we eventually became a happy couple.".
Because each other's parents belong to the type of cheerful personality, coupled with our marriage, the two families almost become one family. The neighbors all envy our family.
"When my child was five years old, my wife and father died of illness. Since then, my wife has become no longer cheerful, and during that time, I almost had no communication with her.". "If I please you in any way, it won't help.". My mother-in-law once encouraged us to travel, but my wife still couldn't be happy. Last year, my mother-in-law also died of illness, and my wife became more introverted.
Recently, my wife rarely shows a smile on her face. She even started talking to me voluntarily after returning home, even earning money with my mother in the kitchen. While I am delighted by the change in my wife, there is also an unspeakable hidden danger.
Out of curiosity, I began to pay attention to my wife's private life, and learned from a good friend of my wife that her ex boyfriend has returned to China and is currently in a divorced state, close to my wife.
I suddenly felt a sense of loss, as well as a sense of crisis. After confirming that my wife and her ex boyfriend had frequent contact, I asked the man to meet alone, and the man agreed.
Perhaps after spending more than ten years abroad, the man directly spoke to me and said, "I know what you want to ask. Let me tell you this, I am indeed single now, but I never thought about renewing my relationship.". That day, I just ran into your wife on the road and she offered to make love to me, so I agreed. Your wife told me that her parents have passed away one after another, which has dealt a great blow to her and has never forgotten me. So, being at home every day is like having depression. Your wife also said that when I left, she wanted to die, but with you around, she gradually gave up the idea of suicide. "At that time, she was not interested in falling in love, but her parents left her alone and she had to agree to marry you.". "And I haven't had a good time abroad in recent years. When I came back, I just wanted to start a new life. I didn't expect your wife to be crazy about me.". Although I have no intention of destroying your marriage, I will marry your wife if she divorce, for the sake of not blaming me.
The man's words were too direct, which made me feel ashamed. At this moment, I don't know how to face it? I don't understand why a man who has lost his wife can't forget it.
Re:
Who can accurately define love? So far, everyone has different interpretations of love in their hearts. From a moral perspective, your wife should not act as a married woman in betrayal of marriage; From the perspective of benevolence and righteousness, your wife really shouldn't feel guilty for being a heartless person towards you, a good man who has been kind to her.
However, your wife loves him. Even if he mercilessly abandoned your wife in the past, your wife still doesn't hate him now. Even if she meets him again, she is willing to throw herself into his arms.
Reasonably, you and your wife have been together for a long time. If she has love for you, during the love period, she cannot be attracted to other men. You know, you're just her second best choice.
Perhaps this is the case with love. What others easily squander, or what you want to pursue in your life, you still achieve nothing in the end. "Your wife has rarely smiled since her father's death, and now the long-lost smile is displayed on her face again. These are not expressions she can pretend to express, but expressions of truth.".
There is a kind of love called fulfillment, and there is a kind of freedom called letting go. Since your wife has never truly loved you, why should you persist? Still a neighbor, looking forward to a peaceful divorce.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
