I have been criticized by others for marrying a plump wife. She treats me coldly, and I am firmer in the rumors.

"Generally, acquaintances introduce people who know their roots well. I am very confident that my parents are also satisfied with her. After reaching an agreement, we confirmed our relationship and got married three months later.". She is not very old, 23 years old, and I am three years older than her. In many ways, I have given way to her. "I've been in love before, but because it wasn't romantic enough, the other party chose to break up, which made me very upset.".

Now that I'm married, I swear to treat my wife well. In our first year of marriage, we were very happy. She treats me thoughtfully, helping me with dinner, washing clothes, and cleaning the room after work. "She dresses very avant-garde and conspicuous, coupled with his fiery figure, which inevitably attracts criticism.". She went out to work after graduating from junior high school, and her personality is very mature. In our family, I became the subject of discussion after lunch. Some people said that she had worked in a nightclub before, which made her so open.

At first, I didn't care about this. Later, she changed her job and often worked night shifts. After returning, she was drunk and cheerfully took a wad of money out of her pocket and gave it to me. When I saw the money, I remembered in my mind what others were discussing about her, and I was very upset. I asked her where the money came from, and what exactly was she doing? "She looked at me angrily and said with a nonchalant expression, 'Wine trays. Wine sellers, these are the expenses the guests give.'". "I got angry and thought of someone saying she went to a nightclub to work. It seems like it is.".

How can she be a woman on that occasion? "I asked her to change jobs, work as a shopping guide or receptionist, or even raise her at home, just don't go to places like bars.". She didn't listen to me and said I controlled her freedom. Whether the bar is clean or not, her heart is clean. "Nowadays, as long as I speak up and ask her to change her job, she feels very disgusted and doesn't give me a single kiss.". Marriage is really troublesome, and I don't want to divorce now, but if this situation continues, I really don't know what to do?

Reply from the maintenance consultant:

She has her own thoughts and circles. When you control her thoughts, she will be very sensitive. If you want her to be a full-time wife at home, you should also consider her feelings. Since marriage, you have said you don't care about others' opinions, but in fact, you care very much in your heart. "When you feel a bit right in your seat, you're very sensitive and always feel like she's betraying you.".

If she cares about this family and you, she won't cheat for no reason, and she won't argue with you with a straight face. "If you don't want a divorce, then consider it in her shoes. Couples can live a good life together.".