I had just given birth to a second child, and a woman with a big belly came to make trouble. My husband's performance almost made me faint

Some people say, 'Women are the princess of one day, the queen of ten months, and the babysitter of a lifetime'. Before marriage, I also questioned this sentence. After marriage, I really tasted that life is not easy. The seemingly small housework can torture people physically and mentally.

When I met my husband, he was just a young man. He had nothing but a hard work. That year, I was twenty-four, he was twenty-five, and his young face was full of longing for love. It was supposed to be a happy thing from love to marriage, but my parents rejected him because of his unstable work.

It was him who conquered my parents with words. 'Men have gold under their knees'. He even knelt down in front of my parents and begged them to let me marry him. He vowed to give me happiness and promise to be good to me all his life. The parents also have a sharp mouth and a beancurd heart. Seeing his sincerity, they compromised the marriage. After marriage, we supported each other. He did not choose a job, and was willing to work as long as he could make money.

After less than three years of marriage, we paid a down payment for a house in the county seat, and our parents had a light on their faces. Everyone boasted that the son-in-law was reliable. After three years of marriage, it was time for me to have a baby. After discussing with my husband, I began to prepare for pregnancy. We are still very lucky. After three months of pregnancy, I was successfully pregnant, and everything was normal. I was pregnant in October, and I gave birth successfully.

After the baby was born, I made a mess. Although my mother-in-law came to help me, I didn't trust her to take care of the baby, especially when she chewed it up with her mouth and fed it to my child. I felt terrible when I thought about it, and I was embarrassed to tell my mother-in-law. When I couldn't stand it, she said that such feeding was not hygienic, and she was angry. She said that my husband was feeding me like this, and I was angry and speechless. Let her go home in anger. I'll take it myself.

In this way, I can't go to work because I take care of children full-time. My husband said that he didn't want me to make money with him when he married me. I took care of my children at home. I was very moved when he came to make money. When my child is five years old, I feel a lot easier. My mother-in-law can help me a lot by helping me pick up and take the child to and from school. I can also take time off to carry out my work.

After the war on the two-child policy, my mother-in-law always wanted me to have another child, saying that a child would be too lonely in the future. I think it makes sense. Anyway, I have had the experience of the first child, and the second child should not be too hard. I compromised and prepared for pregnancy while working. Two years later, I became pregnant and waited for the birth of my child at home, just like the first time.

I don't know if it is because of age. I feel more and more that the second child is pregnant. I don't have the energy of the first child. I feel sleepy when I move, and I am not in good mood. I often want to lose my temper. My husband is busy with his work and can't care about me. I can't adjust my mood. Sometimes when he gets off work late, I complain about him. He doesn't quarrel with me.

Finally, the baby was born. After three or four hours of torture, I gave birth to the baby. The first child was a son, and the second child was a girl. My mother-in-law was extremely happy. She cooked soup for me and made delicious supplements. After giving birth to the baby, I recovered almost. I really couldn't stand the smell of the hospital, so I went home to have a confinement. It will be five days before the birth. The arrival of a strange woman has disrupted my life.

She carried a big belly and shouted my husband's name. She came to the door and shouted at me, saying that my husband had made her pregnant, but she wanted to escape without saying anything. She was not so easy to deal with. If he did not divorce, she would not stop and make trouble all day. I was stunned. She was the third party and my husband's lover.

My mother-in-law hurriedly called my husband, who came in a hurry and saw tears on my face. There was no word of comfort. Instead, she comforted the woman. Don't move the birthrate. Go back first. Did I hear you right? He comforted her not to move her foetus? So, he did cheat.

I sat down on the ground in anger, and my mother-in-law scolded them both and came to pay me again. Seven years ago, I gave birth to two children for him, and he treated me like this. Even without an explanation, I comforted the third party. What do I want for such a marriage?

reply:

In marriage, when a third party comes to mess up the situation, all kinds of methods will be used. The more she makes trouble, the more guilty the man who cheated. Now, your husband, who takes it as his life, secretly betrays you. It's really uncomfortable. But in today's society, those who are junior three are sophisticated, and can do whatever it takes, including women's reputation, for their own sake. The more angry you are, the more you quarrel with your husband, the more secretly the third party will be pleased.

In your current situation, your husband is unfaithful without warning. First of all, you should calmly think about where the marriage problem is. Is there any misunderstanding? He didn't comfort you, but sent a third person back first. Do you want to stabilize the situation and not let the scene be so mixed? You should always be clear about these.

Calm down and have a good talk to see which play he sings. You have two children. He will not give up your family for the sake of a third party in such a hurry. You should do a good job of giving birth first, as the fact is, you should dare to face the setbacks in marriage.