Post Date December, 03 2023
Oral: Although my husband and I have just been married for less than three months, we have had some conflicts in our sexual life.
When my husband is having sex, he is always in the right way, while I like a romantic mood, such as decorating the bedroom environment, adjusting the lights or playing some music, or he can say more sweet words to me during sex. But my husband is always dull, which makes me very disappointed.
Before I got married, I longed for the mysterious and beautiful life of husband and wife, but I didn't expect that my sex life was so boring. For this reason, I also made corresponding efforts. Sometimes I would take my husband to watch some TV dramas and movies describing romantic love together, and sometimes I would blame him for saying "not romantic enough", but these have no effect on my husband. He seems to have a somewhat outdated concept, thinking that marriage is just two people living, and sex life is just "routine", although he is not interested in sex life, But I obviously feel that his understanding of sex life is biased. Every time he has sex, he seems to have little emotional involvement. As soon as his physical needs are met, sex life stops immediately.
Our sex life has not only failed to deepen the relationship between husband and wife, but also made me extremely disappointed with sex life. What can I do to change his wrong practice?
Answer: The attitude of sexual life is related to lifestyle. Watch more love movies
In fact, a person's attitude towards sexual life is deeply influenced by many factors other than sex, such as family background, living environment, education level, especially lifestyle and other factors. So, if your husband's performance is really different from your attitude and expectations, I think there is a difference in lifestyle behind it. The adjustment of lifestyle can not be completed within three months after marriage. Give each other some time, participate in the activities of interest to each other, guide him to watch love movies, and move towards sexual harmony in a comprehensive harmony.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
