Post Date April, 15 2023
I met my current husband five years ago, and because of his reasons, I divorced two years ago. We are in love and I have trusted him for five years. However, just half a year ago, I happened to find out that he had many other women. Only then did I know that during the years he had been with me, he had been in love with different women. I had a big argument with him. He admitted that he was wrong, saying that his heart was with me and that the others were just playing.
He promised not to do those things again, and soon we went through the marriage formalities. But in the past six months after my marriage, I have always had a heart knot in my heart. First, I never wondered why he would step on several boats, but still keep saying that he loves me? Second, I don't know if he has ever changed. He set a password for his phone and deleted the call record before returning home every time. I don't know if he broke up with those people before, or did he find a new woman again? Alas, I don't even know whether to choose to trust him and continue walking with him, or whether he is so ungrateful that long pain is better than short pain, and he should make an early decision?
Re:
1. "You divorced because of him, which means he should have better hardware than your ex husband, otherwise you would take the risk of divorce and defecting to him?"? "Since we got together after climbing high and having an affair, there is a problem with this way of getting to know each other, and he may feel that finding you to marry is at a disadvantage.". Therefore, it is not difficult to understand that he stepped on multiple boats to go out and repair.
2. His cell phone is encrypted and his call records are deleted, indicating that he will never break contact. For so many years, he has been messing with sexual relations. He is such a flirtatious man, will he suddenly wake up and turn over? You should recognize this reality earlier. "You can't let him be exclusive to you. Either you manage your money well and sit in a big house, or you get divorced.".
3. If he likes to mess around outside and his health problems are worrying, you should regularly take him out for a physical examination, and you should also take safety measures in your sexual affairs.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
