Post Date December, 03 2023
"I am his lover, and I am just one of his many amorous people. He has three lovers, one of whom has had a sexual relationship with him for more than a decade, and one of whom is now his partner. He and she are in the same class. Due to the absence of an office in the unit, he works in the same class for two days. He is a very considerate man and has a strong affinity for women.".
"I didn't have any unnecessary thoughts when I liked him. In other words, I wasn't prepared for reality at all. He let me sink before telling me that he had other lovers. I had suffered, but I still loved him too much and accepted it. After all, as long as I didn't see him sleeping with other women, the pain wouldn't be so direct. In this way, I had been procrastinating for a year, feeling sad and struggling for a year,", He will also take into account my feelings, make up any reasons and explain. "I lied to myself and comforted myself, knowing that when we were together, he suddenly wanted to drive me away because his other lovers were coming, especially the one who is still facing him day and night in the same class.". "Every time she wants to come, she calls, and sometimes just shakes it up and he's afraid to find a reason to drive me away (he's someone with a wife). I coax myself into saying, 'Forget it, lying to me also cares about me.'"
"However, once when I tried to find him, he wouldn't answer the phone. I waited at his door for an hour before he opened the door and sent his partner out. Every time he kicked me out, he would say, 'If you don't leave, in case she suddenly comes, it wouldn't be nice for you two to meet.'". But he wasn't afraid of me calling or suddenly meeting that woman who wasn't pretty? "I even saw the woman walk out of his house once, and I went in to question him. He actually said, 'Since you've seen it all, you just don't save face for me, let's break up.'". "I still put up with it. I loved him too much. Finally, I apologized to him and said I was wrong. I shouldn't have gone to his house without his permission, and it took a while for me to feel aggrieved.".
Now, when he and I are together, he says a humble word, even if we are in bed, as long as the woman (his partner) or his lover of more than a decade makes a phone call, he doesn't even hide it, and directly says, "You go, so-and-so is coming." When I tidy up slowly, he is not happy. I silently dress and leave, you will say that I am really cheap, I admit, but I really love him very much, "I would like to be his lover for a lifetime, but this is very painful and painful for me. I want to leave him with me. I am not with him for money, he is selfish and has never spent any money for me. Perhaps it is because I lacked the care of love since I was young. I have been looking for a man with a father, brother, friend, and lover, and he happens to have them all, and they all gave them to me. He is not good to me now, very bad to me.". "I can't get love from him, but I always want to get back the pain he once gave me and the favor he gave me. You would say I'm stupid. I'm with this man, and money has no money, and love has no love. What am I trying to do with him?".
"I understand all the truth. If it were someone else's experience, I would say a lot of truth, but when I come to myself and love him, it has become a magic spell. I cannot be freed, I cannot leave him, without his love, my world, without the day, who will help me, I love him, can you tell me how to keep his heart?"?
reply:
There are women like you in the world, why worry that men can't find lovers? "You are really too naive. Since you know that you are being cheap, why should you continue to be cheap?"? Knowing that there are several lovers in a family, you also want to keep their hearts in vain. Can you keep them? Do you have this ability? "Even sleeping with someone else has to be queued up, and then being kicked out. Think about it, what you're doing is just another person's sexual outlet.".
Perhaps your heart is not strong enough, your sense of excessive dependence is too strong, you hang out with a man like a flower picker, and you talk too much about feelings. Do you think you don't want to spend money with someone else, indicating that your love is pure and sacred? In fact, it's not at all. You're just a plaything for someone else. This man and you are not for the sake of affection, but just temporarily getting close to your body. Do you still want to stick it up?
To be a person, it is necessary to have integrity and self-esteem, and only self-esteem can be respected by others. Personally, people should still have some self-awareness. When we are young, we are not afraid of making mistakes, but we are afraid of making them even when we know they are wrong. Let's leave this promiscuous scum. It's not worth your pain and suffering for him. I hope you wake up well and leave this promiscuous turnip. In addition, don't let yourself become a resentful woman. Being a junior also requires dignity and decency. You should learn from Deng Wendi. It is not easy to achieve a certain level of success in a junior. Being someone else's lover doesn't have something to excel in, and it is also difficult to rise to the top. Ultimately, you can only become a target for others to play with, and the consequences are bleak and tragic. Choose to be a good woman. The world is so big and there are so many men, why not let him become so pathetic? Give yourself some backbone, focus on ambition, be a good woman, take the right path, lead a normal life, and live a proud life.
