I am dedicated to helping him start a business. To raise money, I went to my mother's house to borrow money. After his success, he repaid me like this

Five years ago, my husband and I met and married. His family is not very good, but he has a entrepreneurial dream in his heart. When we first got married, we were both working from nine to five. In the second year after marriage, I became pregnant, and our pressure increased a lot. My physical quality is good. I insisted on going to work with my stomach on my back during pregnancy. After taking maternity leave, I returned to work. I know the situation of our family. I dare not stop working. We took my mother-in-law over and asked her to take care of the children, so that we can go to work safely.

The most difficult time is when the child was two years old. His husband and several partners studied and planned his entrepreneurial dream for many years. His earnest and hard work moved me. Entrepreneurship needs capital. I feel sad at his sad look. Comparatively speaking, my family's conditions are several times better than theirs. When I got married, my mother prepared 100000 yuan for me. After marriage, I asked my mother to keep this dowry. I was afraid that I would spend it if I kept it. Seeing my husband looking for financing and opportunities everywhere, I couldn't eat a hot meal at the end of the day.

I see it in my eyes and it hurts in my heart. I always have a good face, but I left my face and went to borrow money from my parents. Fortunately, my parents didn't say anything and knew my character. If they didn't give me, I would never force myself. My mother gave me 100000 yuan of my dowry and 200000 yuan of their pension money. I was moved to tears at that time. My mother said that as long as their daughter had a good life, they would have nothing to ask for when they were filial to them in their later years. I brought money and words to my husband, who usually doesn't like to express himself, and his eyes also sparkled with tears.

After the company's funds were in place, it began to operate normally, and customers were also constantly generated. A rich woman appeared among the customers, placing orders several times higher than others. In order to retain this big customer, my husband often accompanies her to eat, chat and have fun. The time to go home is getting late. At first, he can tell me where they eat, send me a WeChat location, and then simply play and disappear.

After inquiring, I learned that they went to ktv to sing. During the game, they had physical contact and were out of control. The woman herself had a good feeling for my husband. After the two were alone, an extramarital affair occurred. I was at a loss when I learned the news. We are a couple in need. I don't believe he will treat me like this. As a result... he personally admitted his relationship with the other party and sent me off with "playing tricks on the spot".

I asked him to cut off contact with that woman. He said it was impossible. The company was not his own. It was a pity that such a large customer was lost. He promised that I would not cross the border again and would keep a distance from her, but it was impossible to break it. After hearing his words, I was discouraged. Entrepreneurship was his dream. However, for the so-called interests, he used his body as an exchange. I couldn't bear it. I directly threatened him to divorce and ask him to return the money I invested to me. He stabbed me, said I was insane, and promised that I would not make mistakes again. Why should I be so serious. Excuse me, what should I do? Why does he have no bottom line?

Reply from the consultant:

If a person is influenced by interests, he will lose his bottom line, lose his sense, and do something unthinkable, his heart will become wild, and his greed will become bigger and bigger. The most basic moral concept of life cannot be lost. At the beginning, you helped him start a business and gave him capital. Now his career has improved slightly. It's terrible to turn around and forget your kindness to him.

Don't forget the original intention is what each of us should do. His current attitude is that he doesn't know how to return, and his interests are deeply ingrained in his mind. If you don't want your marriage to collapse, you should change his mind in time. If you continue, his heart will be farther and farther away from you.