Post Date April, 15 2023
Event Restoration, Narrator: Suspicious Man
Sitting in the office, I feel a bit distracted. The female colleague next door, Yuan Li, jokingly asked if the vacation was not enough and I wanted to renew my contract. I nodded recklessly and didn't feel in the mood to respond to her. This surprised Yuan Li, who used to make good friends with me. Basically, I am a living treasure in the company, responsible for mediating the office atmosphere. Even I was silent, and the silence around me was a bit intimidating.
During lunch break, Yuan Li finally couldn't help but poke her fingertips at me and said, "What's the situation with you? Why do you have a bad face? Who offended you? Did you argue with your wife
She is heartless and has vague relationships with every male colleague, with unclear boundaries. Although I usually play with her, I actually don't like her behavior in my heart. Coincidentally, I was in a bad mood and unfortunately got caught by her, and I didn't want to pay attention to her. Yuan Li snorted and plunged into the pile of male colleagues, discussing where to go for lunch, without bothering me anymore.
Indeed, I had an argument with my wife, but this time, rather than arguing, it was her showdown with me. My wife feels like we can't get along anymore. Okay, how do you say that? My first reaction was that she became nervous. I've only been married for two years now, and for no reason, I can't live on anymore.
She was quite calm, looking at the unknown appearance of me, Monk Zhang Er, and accusing me of my crimes one by one.
Firstly, I always suspect her and often take advantage of her to check her various social accounts. My wife said, "Later on, when I returned home, I stopped chatting with my friends, not even my female friends
Also, there are activities in her company department, and I always call to urge her to go home. Did I ever make a phone call when you went out for socializing? You just don't trust me, there's actually nothing going on
Another obstacle is to prevent her from attending classmate gatherings or any form of friend gatherings. It's okay to go, but when she comes back from there, she always needs to explain clearly who she saw, who she was with, and what she said. I wanted to ask, but she was not happy to answer, which inevitably caused discord.
There were countless coldness and neglect. In her words, I suspected her of running away with people all day long, but I never cared about her feelings. She said she no longer has feelings for me, we can't go back to the past.
To be honest, there are flashy female colleagues in the company, and I have also met women who do not value themselves. Therefore, when I first started dating, I particularly valued this aspect. My wife was the one I chose out of ten thousand. After getting married, I didn't really care about her as she said. Maybe it wasn't right for me to behave like this, but I thought it was also a way of caring, but I didn't expect to cause so many negative emotions to her. These are things that I didn't do well enough and didn't do well enough, but now I want to change. After she showcased with me, I have been very cautious for the past few days. She didn't arrive home until 8:30 one day, and I didn't dare to ask where she went. It was her who later told me that she went to see the house and planned to move out. I really don't know what to do, how can I make her change her mind? I have started to reflect on my words and actions after marriage, but the way my wife looks, I really don't have the bottom of my heart.
Evaluation and Analysis
Respect and trust are prerequisites for love. If you don't trust, what kind of relationship do you have? Perhaps you are very nervous and worried about her, but it doesn't make sense to show "suspicion". In the final analysis, it still stems from lack of confidence. Worries about the stability of your marriage are reflected in life, which is the widespread suspicion towards your wife. Don't wait until the other party can't bear it anymore and the conflict is maximized before you start to fear more serious consequences and listen carefully to the other party's thoughts. Learn to understand what the other person needs and what I can do for them in the first place. Now, just like she showcases with you, you can also find opportunities to talk to her, stay deep in your heart, express your reluctance and willingness to change. In short, be less suspicious, care more, and compare your heart to your own. Believe in her various actions, and also hope that the current suppressed emotional life can turn around. Once your changes are recognized by her, your relationship can be restored to a smooth path.
