Post Date December, 03 2023
Because the man had an affair and his wife hit the mistress, is it reasonable for the mistress's parents to demand an apology?
[Answer] The parents of the other person are not aware and only know that their daughter has been beaten. Of course, they have to come to the house to seek an explanation, which is a reasonable response. Encountering a partner's infidelity in marriage is certainly a grievance, but resorting to violence is wrong. You hit someone, but the reason is not on your side. From your reaction, I can see that your temper is usually quite irritable. If you don't improve, you can beat and run away this mistress, and there will be another one.
[Question] My husband bought two identical birthday gifts. I didn't know until I saw the invoice. Where is the other one? May I ask if this is considered cheating?
Ask him directly and see how he answers. It's unclear if there is a situation. But don't daydream and suspect alone. Women have a rich imagination and are particularly prone to scaring themselves; However, women are also sensitive, they feel that there is a problem, and in the end, most likely there is indeed a problem. How to grasp this degree requires both warmth and honesty between spouses.
My boyfriend and I have been together for three months now, and he hasn't told me anything about QQ passwords, so I haven't asked him. But I don't feel secure and I don't know who he is in contact with. What should I do?
At the beginning, there was a willingness to bind the other person's free space, which would scare away the man. You must first do not care, what do you not care about? Not caring that he has his own independent time and circle of friends, not caring that even if he is occasionally busy and not in touch. If you see him as the only center of gravity in life, it's a bit scary. The closer you look at him, the easier it is to lose.
We have been married for 12 years and suspect that our husband has been cheating. A few days ago, I saw in his chat record that he told a netizen that he had been lingering in bed for a few hours. Can this be used to confirm his infidelity? And I make several phone calls to that woman every day (as I found out), but she never admits to having an affair, so she admitted to me that she shouldn't have chatted or called others. She also said that no matter what happened before, she definitely won't do it in the future. Can I believe him? Is he cheating?
[Answer] "No matter what happened before, I will definitely not do it in the future" - This sentence is worth considering, indicating that he is also uneasy about what he has done, and can only believe 50% of the sentence that he will not do it in the future.
My mother-in-law doesn't help me take care of the child. I live with my mother now, but I feel uncomfortable and hate her very much. I always think I can't just make her comfortable. What should I do? How should I get along with such a mother-in-law?
[Answer] My mother-in-law only has the obligation to support your husband. Your own child should be raised by yourself. Don't take it for granted that parents are playing a role in raising the third generation. They have put in a lifetime of effort, and there is no reason for them to be gnawed old. Also, if you want to make her uncomfortable, her son will find a way to make you uncomfortable. Must a family fight like this? Where is there so much hatred. How you treat people, how people treat you. Don't be too troublesome with children, it's your responsibility and obligation as well as your husband's.
