Post Date December, 03 2023
Although my husband is over 40 years old, he is very trendy. The chat apps that young people like to play with are all available on their phones. After arriving home at night, his phone kept ringing. At first, I thought it was all about his colleagues and business, so I didn't take it seriously, and he often hid in his study or bathroom to play.
Although I have ten thousand dissatisfaction, I suffer from not having the opportunity to understand what he is actually doing, and from the perspective of the phenomenon, he has not done anything extraordinary. In order to maintain the peace of the family, I have to turn a blind eye. But when I read his WeChat that day, I completely collapsed.
That day, his colleague suddenly called and said that someone had broken into the company's door, which may have caused losses. He was asked to hurry over. In a hurry, he left another phone at home. Not long after, his phone made a sound, and out of curiosity, I accidentally flipped through his chat records. At this moment, I learned what it feels like to be startled at first sight without knowing.
Originally, among his friends, all of them were girls of the same color. From the avatar, not only are they youthful and radiant, but they are also beautiful and moving, some of whom are dressed in revealing and sexy clothes. The sound just made was from a sexy and exposed little girl. Language is full of temptation and ambiguity. Obviously, these little girls have all talked to him, and although some of the conversations were not provocative, from the frequent conversations, their relationship should be different and average. And most of the conversations are initiated by my husband first. There are suspicions of pleasing girls in the language, and it is obvious that the chatting and seduction in this are all done by the husband himself, but he is also trying his time.
I fell into a state of immense sadness for a moment. To be honest, I usually trust him very much. I never expected my trusted husband to do such a terrible thing behind my back. Although the internet is virtual, online seduction does not necessarily mean that he is actually lecherous and cheating, which I also know, at least his spirit is cheating. Mental infidelity is in a sense more terrifying than physical infidelity, as it will be persistent and uncontrollable.
I am also trapped in a fierce struggle inside, I don't know if I should talk about this matter with him. I'm afraid he might say that I was peeping into his privacy. We have always had a tacit understanding that we give each other a private space and do not visit each other's privacy, but it does not include emotional smuggling. Another thing is that this kind of thing is still virtual after all. If exposed, it not only makes him embarrassed, but also may stimulate him to really go into reality and mix with those little girls.
You should know that in today's world, many young girls are like moths to the fire rushing towards successful men. It's not always the husband who actively seduces them, but the other way around, they want to seduce their husband. That way, it would be even more terrifying. It is said that men chasing women is separated by heavy mountains, and women chasing men is separated by layers of paper, which may not be accepted at that time.
Miss Chen:
Online chatting may seem ordinary, but once it develops into an online relationship, it can disrupt family harmony. The development of the internet has facilitated communication and exchange between people, while also creating opportunities for more people to cheat. At present, your husband's unilateral mental infidelity may be on a whim. You can communicate and exchange ideas with him appropriately to avoid awkward situations between you and help him get out of the virtual online relationship and restore your marriage to normal.
