Post Date April, 15 2023
Xiao Mo has been married to his wife for 8 years, and he remembers being shy at one point to reveal his full love to his wife. Until one evening, he took a deep breath and confided in his wife about his tenderness towards her. He said, "To me, you are the most extraordinary woman in the world." Xiao Mo's deep affection moved his wife, who was busy with household chores. Whenever there was time afterwards, the two would sit down and have a quiet conversation. Xiao Mo felt that since he opened his heart to each other, his relationship with his wife had become even hotter than before.
Kind conversation is indispensable in life, especially the whispers between couples, which can be said to be a "booster" of love. When dealing with marital relationships, in addition to necessary sweet words, it is also important to actively open up to the other party and tell them how you feel about love.
The ideal realm for couples to converse is' harmony between qin and se '. Through heartfelt communication, couples can achieve harmonious coexistence, mutual respect and understanding. If both parties lack necessary communication and each has their own thoughts, let the other party guess your inner thoughts. Once the other party misunderstands your true feelings, it can easily lead to family conflicts. So it is very necessary for couples to open their hearts and communicate with each other.
Change your tone and open up your heart
Many couples agree that they should respect each other, but in fact, not many people can do it well. Especially for couples who have lived together for a long time, their tone of voice is often stiff, but they will never use the same tone to talk to friends. If we record what we have said to our wives or husbands and listen carefully to our own tone and voice, we will find that we do not respect our partners to a large extent.
If a couple always speaks in a critical, lecturing, or scolding tone, the other party will only deepen their distress, thinking that their wife or husband does not love or dislike them, invisibly causing distance and estrangement between the couple. This way, the door to communication will slowly close. So the first element of opening up is to first lower your tone of voice and engage in conversation with your partner in a gentle tone and attitude.
Open up and showcase your true self
Everyone has their own thoughts and reactions to things they encounter. No matter how close they are to each other, they cannot fully understand each other's thoughts. Therefore, in marriage, both spouses should present their true selves to their partners, not conceal or lie in front of their husbands or wives, and truthfully tell them their strengths and weaknesses. They should also willingly accept their opinions on their own problems.
It is much better to speak the truth concisely than to bury your feelings in your heart without saying a word. Moreover, it is essential for couples to understand and trust each other. When you open your heart to your spouse, it can also infect them, allowing them to open their hearts to you. Therefore, be bold in exposing your inner desires.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
