Post Date December, 03 2023
My husband and I are college classmates, and we met during our summer job. This was due to his rigorous work attitude, which deeply attracted me. For this reason, I actively pursued him. He told me at the time that he had a girlfriend in his hometown who had been dating for four years, and I had to let go with regret, but still gave him some help in daily life.
After graduating from college, I returned to my father's company to work, while my husband faced the end of returning to the countryside, or he was a bit unwilling, so he begged me to help him find a stable job. Later, he also came to work at my father's company. That was also the first time he learned that I was originally a Miss Qianjin.
In the following days, under the arrangement of my father, I had countless blind dates. Every time, I used to compare my blind date with my husband, feeling that those blind dates were a bit slick, so they were all rejected by me.
And the husband may have become accustomed to city life and find it a bit unrealistic to have a childhood sweetheart, so he proposed to break up with the other party. Six months later, they launched a fierce attack on me.
In fact, I have always liked him very much. After learning that he had already dealt with his affairs with his ex girlfriend, we quickly got married.
My husband was the first college student in their village, and he was the first man in their village to marry a woman from a wealthy family. Therefore, my husband suddenly became a popular figure in their village.
In fact, the husband also has certain characteristics of a Phoenix man: for example, every time he returns to his hometown, he always talks about acting up. I have always cooperated with this.
Recently, the popularity of the TV drama "Red Sorghum" aroused various memories of my husband. During this time, when we went back to our hometown to visit our mother-in-law, I unexpectedly found out that he had been secretly in contact with his ex girlfriend.
After learning this news, I felt uneasy about my husband.
One night, after my husband finished, he suddenly said he wanted to go out for a walk. I questioned being with him, but he refused. Due to my mother-in-law's presence, I didn't want to argue with my husband, so he went instead. However, I chose to track.
I saw my husband coming to a sorghum field, and his ex girlfriend was waiting for him there. As they quickly hugged each other, my cough ruined their good deeds. At the same time, my husband obediently followed me home.
That night, we slept in the same bed, but no one paid any attention.
Nowadays, life is still going on, and I don't have a deeper theory with my husband about this matter. My husband treats me better than before.
Is he a redemption after guilt, or is he using kindness to numb my thoughts and create conditions for him and his ex girlfriend to meet again?
Reply:
In this lifetime, people will experience many things, and may choose to be indifferent to past events, but it is absolutely impossible to forget, especially if your husband has an affair with a woman he has been in love with for four years.
Your husband abandoned each other, and he is already very guilty. Or rather, when your husband abandoned the other person, he already planned to pursue you. However, he didn't want to be too heartless in this matter. Therefore, he only launched an attack on you six months after breaking up with that woman.
Over the years, your husband has been very happy, but the rural themed TV dramas have awakened his memories of the past. His original intention to reconnect with that woman or just want to know if they are doing well, but unfortunately, both of them have a tendency to revive their old relationships. Therefore, they chose to meet in Sorghum due to the limited number of times they meet each other every year.
In fact, your coughing broke the harmony between them. You didn't curse or play hard, it was your cultivation, but your husband's silent accompanying you home was his true attitude between you and that woman.
After the incident, you did not mention it again, demonstrating your grandeur. Your husband treated you even better because he felt guilty in his heart.
I believe that during this period, your husband's mind has also been like a roller coaster, with the figures of you and that woman appearing separately. In the end, his decision was that he had already failed a woman who deeply loved him (referring to that woman) and could no longer fail the woman he deeply loved (referring to you).
I hope you can let go of your doubts about your husband and believe that from now on, he will give you loyalty and be kind enough to you.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
