Post Date April, 15 2023
I remember the French writer Prus said: "Happiness is good for people's body, but only sadness can cultivate spiritual strength." When you are in love, you may feel inferiority complex, and you will miss it. The reason is that you haven't found a way to cure your inferiority complex. In fact, grief itself is a medicine. After the pain, people will calm down and think about how to go better in the future.
First of all, don't listen to music
Many people always like to listen to music when they are lovelorn. In fact, this is not a good way. Because listening to music when you are lovelorn makes you feel more uncomfortable. We all know that pop music is about the joys and sorrows of the world. Music always reminds you of the past. This is not conducive to your reply. So we suggest not to listen to music when you are lovelorn. Because music is easier to arouse people's sadness and make people more self-pity.
Second, target transfer
When you are in love, you often lack motivation. But only if you find something to focus on, can you shift the hurt caused by lovelorn love and get rid of your inner inferiority complex. Only when you have your own new goal, will your focus shift slowly, and a person's daily time is fixed. When you spend some time on the goal, you will naturally spend some time in the lovelorn inferiority complex. Sometimes people's inferiority is due to confusion, and people's confusion is only due to their limited vision.
Third, go to the countryside or travel to other places
When you are lovelorn, you need to have a broad mind. If you can stay away from the noise of the city at this time. Travel to quiet countryside or strange places. The simplicity of the countryside will make you feel that you can live well without love. The customs and customs of different places can stimulate your enthusiasm for life, and make you feel that the pain of being lovelorn is just insignificant. It is often nature that can open people's minds. The great rivers and mountains of the motherland are always inclusive, which is also the reason why literati and refined guests have expressed their feelings through the scenery.
Finally, it can supplement spiritual food
If there is the fastest way in the world, it is books. So, why not read first. Enjoy the scholarly world that belongs to one person. Through reading, you will meet people at different levels, and you will reveal friends at different levels. You will unconsciously improve yourself, sublimate yourself, and cultivate yourself. In the past, I felt inferior to myself because I was lovelorn. Maybe when you encounter a text or a sentence, it will wake you up. In fact, all the lovelorns in the world are often just their own wishful thinking. If the other party loves you, it will not bear you to leave. If you love the other party, even if the other party leaves, then why? Being together is often less comfortable and natural than being together.
If you want to get out of inferiority complex after lovelorn, you should first have the mentality to act. Action is a good medicine to overcome all fears and inferiority. So listen to others' suggestions and try the above methods. I believe you can get out of inferiority complex and build a strong self.
