Don't think that the marriage certificate can completely bind a man. If you have this idea, you are really naive. In the face of so many temptations outside, you can only completely tie his heart by constantly improving yourself and making yourself a better wife. Today, let's take a look at how to hold onto a man's heart after getting married.
Not being a Xianglin sister-in-law after marriage
Every day after marriage, a woman will discover some small flaws in her partner, such as not doing household chores and always being careless. At this time, women can easily become motherly, like a Xianglin sister-in-law who likes to nag. Big things nag, even small things nag; Bad things nag, good things also; Don't nag when you have nothing to do, and nag even more when you have something to do, making men uneasy.
In fact, men most need to rely on the warmth of women to relax themselves, and most need a marital relationship to nourish their tired body and mind. If men's subconscious needs are not met for a long time, other women may enter the man's inner world.
Never be a yellow faced woman
Before marriage, you may dress up in a bright and glamorous way, fearing that your messy side will appear in front of the other party. However, after marriage, you may feel that you are all your own and there is no need to continue dressing up. Clothes are wrinkled and loose, wearing pajamas on the street, walking in slippers, loving to manage people, and being able to curse the streets. It is completely a yellow faced woman's image, lacking charm and attractiveness.
Of course, a woman's youth cannot last forever, but basic embellishments and appropriate attire are always necessary, and basic cultural image is still necessary. Marriage is never the watershed for a woman to turn yellow. To maintain a man's heart, a woman must first maintain her "face". How can a man have an affair when he has a charming wife at home?
Learn to praise him
Women are picky, but if they always pick on each other after marriage, over time, men may not even want to go home after work. Husband and wife should be harmonious. "Affirmation" is the magic weapon, and "praise" is the secret recipe. Do not deny, affirm more, criticize less, and praise more. Look more at your strengths, men should praise and even admire them.
Men have a hero complex in their bones, and they want to be admired by women. Therefore, it is not difficult to conquer a man. Praise him, worship him, and he will surrender under your skirt. When a man is successful, he needs the praise and admiration of a woman. When a man is disappointed, he needs the affirmation and encouragement of a woman, so that he will always be your "treasure" and will never be left behind.
Inclusive and considerate towards others
A man is like a big boy, no matter how successful his career is or how powerful the workplace is, his heart is still fragile and needs to be considerate and tolerant of women. There are indeed many temptations of eroticism outside, but a gentle, considerate, and tolerant wife can not only detect traces of her husband's inner turmoil, but also use tenderness to melt and hold his heart.
If a woman finds LELO Ola in a man's bag, don't make a fuss. It's likely that he bought it for you. It's not scary for men to have sexual desires, but what's scary is that women themselves play a role in fueling the flames.
When a woman is young, relying on her beauty like a flower can make a man give up on her. However, by the time you get married for ten years, you have gradually entered the aging stage. At this time, if you want to continue to maintain your charm, you need to constantly enrich yourself, allowing time to bring you not only wrinkles but also irreplaceable temperament and beauty, which can make a man stay for you for a lifetime.
You should know that women can indeed make a man stay for you by relying on their appearance, but they will not be tied down by your beauty for a lifetime. Women, don't be silly. Those sweet words are just things to listen to. Enrich yourself, only better can you meet any challenge in your relationship.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)