Post Date December, 03 2023
"I have a very close little sister. Her husband is a very wealthy man, who often travels around the world to talk about business, find projects, and constantly change clients. In addition, female clients become younger and more beautiful as they change.". My little sister is worried that her husband will "fail" in business, "fail" in money, and "lose virginity" in marriage when dealing with "female clients.". She asked me to ask you for advice on how to hold a man's heart and money?
Ms. Cai:
I'm sorry, your little sister, I can't help you for the moment. Because I don't have a secret recipe that can hold a man's heart and money in check. As far as I know, no scientist in the world has developed such a secret recipe.
You should advise your little sister to seriously communicate with her husband to see what attitude he has towards his wife and how to evaluate their emotional foundation and marital management. It is normal for a husband to do business or find clients outside the home, regardless of whether the other person is a man or a woman. Whether a business or a client will cause a spouse to "lose their virginity" depends first on the quality of the marriage itself and whether the marital relationship is secure; Secondly, it depends on the quality, willpower, and sense of family responsibility of the "flying around" party.
If your little sister has a positive evaluation of her marriage, don't worry too much. "If the husband is a" playboy "man and the relationship is loose or even problematic, it is more dangerous.". As for money, it should be the second most important issue. If the marriage really cannot continue and both parties have the right to propose a breakup, then the property must be distributed. If your little sister is tempted to divorce her husband, it is important to start paying attention to his income and expenses and mastering the details of his possessions. If the husband intentionally conceals his property, he can only entrust a lawyer to investigate according to law.
Fundamentally speaking, women need to have their own things to do, self-reliance, and self-improvement, in order to get rid of the fate of being subject to men. A woman with self-respect and self-reliance, why should she live in fear all day? If the gap between husband and wife is too large, women will only stay at home as wives, and they will monitor and control men everywhere, becoming their "shackles", which will harm the marriage. As the saying goes, "If you press hard but don't accept it, you will explode if you grip it." The same principle applies to marital relationships.
Strangely, many women are currently searching for a "secret recipe" for controlling men. Some believe in the nonsense of fortune tellers, hoping to use magic to "turn bad luck into good luck"; Someone also asked the witch to hide the "draw" under the bed; Some people burn incense at home every day to worship the Buddha and pray for the blessing of the Bodhisattva. Various feudal and superstitious practices and negative attitudes of the parties involved are completely useless and even counterproductive. The value of women is not reflected in how to control men, but in better developing themselves. This is my advice for your little sister.
