Post Date December, 03 2023
After marriage, men should put family first and put away their dissolute heart. It's time to return to the family. So why do many men not go home now? There is a song called "falling in love with a person who does not go home". How many women's voices have been sung. So, when choosing a husband, women must see if men have a sense of responsibility. This is really very important!!
A new survey shows that more than 80% of married men say they can go home on time for two or three days at most in a week. What are they doing outside for the rest four or five days? So why don't men like to go home? What is the reason why men don't want to go home?
Men are the kind of people who don't want to say a lot of things. They all like to keep things in mind. When there is an unhappiness between husband and wife, men always don't want to say it. This will only aggravate the desire of men not to go home. Next, I will tell you the reason why men don't go home. I hope to think about it after watching.
In real life, many married men don't want to go home after work. There are many factors. According to the online survey, the top three reasons are: the external world is too wonderful, and men like to play; Men's sociality determines that they have more friends and more social engagements; Aesthetic fatigue of his wife.
From the pictograph of the Chinese word "home", home is the pig under the treasure cover, the treasure cover refers to the roof, and the pig refers to the people living in the house. If we symbolize women as treasure houses, then men are pigs raised by women. But in fact, the word "rag" refers to wild boar. There is no well-tamed pig. Such a pig is reckless, brave, careless, and does not take the initiative to attack. It is not afraid of upsetting the emperor and Laozi. It is easy to be confused, but difficult to control.
A woman is a home in itself, and a man has no home. Unless a woman wants him, a man will have a home. In terms of cultural conservation, home is a place where people can recuperate, shelter themselves from wind and rain, and multiply and grow. Women symbolize nurture, and men symbolize creation. Men need women to nurture, and women's lives need men to create. Some people say that men live for women, while women live for procreation and raising offspring. All the men in the world are raised by women and are meat from women's bodies, so men should work hard to repay women.
Why are more and more men afraid to go home
1、 The outside world is too wonderful. Men like to play
2、 Men's sociality determines that they have more friends and more social engagements
3、 Aesthetic fatigue of wife
These statements are superficial explanations, not the needs of men. A man's blood is full of "rag" spirit. You can snub him, but you can't humiliate him. You can ask him, but you can't stop him from being casual and lazy at home. If a man at home feels no dignity or leisure, he would rather wander alone than surrender. However, a man who has been tamed by a woman has lost his pride like a hog. You can let him laugh and nag at you, and he will not be angry if you don't treat him as a person. The premise is whether he has got the benefits of being like a domestic pig, and whether women have let men's self-esteem be satisfied and respected like rags.
Marriage is the treasure house. Women's love, tolerance, forbearance and warmth are the circles that hold men's hearts. Only when the pigsty is firmly built, men's hearts will lose the wild like "rags". However, all women's gentleness is the same circle as the trap, and the man who is lost from home may be more likely to fall into the circle of others. There are two kinds of home, one is the real home: house; One is psychological home: men have no home in their hearts, and men who have no home in their hearts are eager to go home. If the home is not as loving and tolerant as the female uterus, it is only a psychological compulsion of men to go home after opening and closing the door many times. Men who can't find love will have sex and wear clothes with many women. In fact, they are repeating the ceremony of going home, but there is no home after all.
For men, the uterus in a woman's body is a man's home, where birth, happiness and death are born. Sex and love are symbols of men's desire to return to their mother (home), and the grave is another symbol of return. Look at the tombs built by ancient people. The long corridor leads to a house like a uterus. The soul of a man needs to find its place in the body of a woman, so the pinyin of the tomb where the soul rests is the same as that of the mother. Symbolically, if a woman has a uterus, she will have a home. A woman who can selflessly accommodate men like a uterus is the ultimate home that men desire.
