After falling in love, she finally found out that she was going to quit and have been struggling to find her own place. However, she tossed and turned in her heart and sat in a position but was still unhappy. At a certain moment, she suddenly realized that this place that wasn't suitable for her was not suitable after all. No matter how long it took, if she didn't love, she would never love. So now is the time to leave. "I didn't love her first. If I leave now, she must be very sad. So how can I say that breaking up doesn't hurt her?"?
Gradually cool, give her a psychological preparation.
Habit is a very strange thing. When you are not used to being injured, your heart will drip blood if the other person accidentally says a heavy sentence. However, when you become accustomed to the indifference of the other person, even if the other person says that they want to clear up their relationship with you, you still feel that it is nothing, because you have become accustomed to his attitude towards you and have prepared mentally. Therefore, to say that breaking up doesn't hurt the other person, you need to learn to gradually become indifferent. A woman's mind is delicate and sensitive. If you suddenly become cold, she must immediately feel your intentions, or if you suddenly say goodbye, she will also temporarily be unable to accept it. Such a sudden blow is likely to cause unimaginable consequences. Slowly and quietly, she gradually widened the distance between you. She just kept adapting and getting used to it until she suddenly discovered that you had gone so far. If she asked you at this time and told her you didn't love anymore, she would understand.
Betraying and cheating will only hurt her severely.
Some people like to take risks and want to break up with their girlfriend, but they dare not speak up. They are afraid that the parting words coming out of their mouths will hurt her. Therefore, they try to hope that their girlfriend can leave on their own and begin to embark on a path of no return, weaving lies and creating betrayal. However, they do not know that this will only severely harm her. Even if you don't love anymore, don't try to design love by any means. Your own unhappiness, lack of respect for love, and playing with her... do you think she won't be completely injured? Therefore, don't use another woman in the name of letting her give up, and don't make yourself a liar full of lies. This will only make her more sad. How unlucky is she to have loved such a poor person as you?
A grievance indicates that one is not worthy.
If you insist that your girlfriend take the initiative to break up, there's no way out. If you're good enough, and you want her to leave, she may be reluctant to part with you. So this time, take away your confidence, grievance yourself, and show her that you don't deserve it! Of course, not only do you need to verbally express your shortcomings, but also in terms of behavior, you need to deliberately do imperfect things that she dislikes. Men love face, but if you want to say that breaking up doesn't hurt your girlfriend, you need to temporarily put aside face. If the woman is a stubborn person and you cannot enlighten, then ask a friend to help her see this wrong love. "There are few people who can truly ignore anyone's words, especially when others' words are still very reasonable. Therefore, let a friend play drums and incite her to feel that you are not a man worth cherishing and should be relied on. Coupled with your" unchanging nature ", the time when she takes the initiative to say goodbye is not far away. As long as she personally proposes it, the harm caused by the breakup must also be minimal.".
"How can I say that breaking up doesn't hurt the woman? What can I do to make my girlfriend die? We have repeatedly proved that only the competition of mutual hurt..." Jacky Xue's song plays in a circle. I finally told you that breaking up. I hope you can see the look of love and don't get hurt by wrong love again.