Post Date December, 03 2023
Modern people often face the confusion of breaking up, especially when two people do not know how to make the request to break up so as not to hurt each other. It's best for two people to continue to be friends after breaking up, at least not to become a bitter couple. So what exactly should we say to break up so as not to hurt our friendship?
In terms of specific scenarios, it should be divided into the "male version" and the "female version", and because the person who proposed the breakup is different, there are different methods.
Boys' Edition
When a man proposes to break up, he is actually more or less labeled as a "scumbag", especially when the woman is not making a big mistake, it is easy to be misunderstood as a man who is naturally fond of starting and ending. And most men are actually very aggrieved in their hearts, clearly because of personality differences and other reasons, why are everyone unwilling to see the truth? So when boys break up, there is no doubt that they should take more care of women's feelings.
Before deciding to break up, it is important to maintain some distance from women, not just to suddenly feel cold or indifferent, but to gradually start making women accustomed to their own days. Although women may be a bit confused, they do not start to engage in emotional arguments. Then at the appropriate time, ask the woman out for a meal, and then calmly tell her, "XX, I'm sorry. I promised to accompany you all the way, but it may be because I'm tired, and you're also tired. We can actually get along in a different way." Try to be gentle, as a man's proposal to break up is a soul shock for most women.
Some women may still feel incredulous and constantly ask men, "Are you not in love with me anymore. When facing these questions, boys should not rudely say "yes, I just don't love you", which can easily make women collapse. The best way is to quietly listen to the woman and sigh, "You know, XX, it's because you're always like this that I think we should get along in a different identity." This is undoubtedly the way to make women accept it more quickly.
Girls' Edition
Many girls are accustomed to sending good person cards to boys when breaking up, saying, "XX, you're really a good person, but I don't think we're suitable for each other..." But can such conversations really make men feel better? The answer is clearly no, and most men would rather have girls break up directly than accept such perfunctory answers. Therefore, when women break up, they still need to consider how to avoid hurting men's self-esteem, especially when they say, "I don't think you have any ambition." Men will indulge in such a blow.
If you still want to be friends, the best way is to say, "My family thinks I'm too young now. In a few years, when I mature, you'll have to change a bit. Let's try again later." Using my family as a "shield" is the safest way.
When it comes to breaking up, remember not to say things that will hurt the other person's self-esteem. It's not easy for two people to walk together, and it's not unreasonable to get together and break up. In the end, it's better to leave a memorable memory for each other, rather than gnashing teeth at the thought of each other.
