It is said that the most destructive game in the world is a game called love. Many people fall in love with a person when they are blind, but love still dies in stupidity and stubbornness.
The people who regret afterwards think about how to save a person. They all blame themselves for being too stupid and stubborn. Love is such a game. It takes time to cool down before it can be revived. So what should be done to prepare for another rebirth while waiting for the resurrection? This is what should be done before saving a person.
For those who are regretting their premature death of love, don't be busy chasing and beating, give the other party some breathing time, and also give yourself some calm space. Lovers who have just broken up are always in a bad mood. Often at this time, if you go to the pot and don't open the pot, it will really make the other party feel upset, and you will be particularly disgusted with you. Then you really have no chance to save love.
It is said that digging a tree requires digging roots. It can be seen that it is the key to find out the reason for solving one thing. So you can take advantage of this dormant period to think about it. Why did you break up? When sorting out the details of the matter, you must not look at the other party with a critical eye, and do not have to investigate who is right and who is wrong. The reason for breaking up is that both of them are responsible. If you want to recover, you must first admit your mistakes. When God created man, he gave people two pockets. The front pocket contains other people's shortcomings, and the back pocket contains his own shortcomings. So people always think that others are doing wrong, but never find the reason in themselves. If you really want to save someone, you must learn to find reasons in yourself. Only by starting from yourself can you solve the problem.
When you find the reason for the disagreement, don't rush to admit your mistake, and then say that you will change. When the other party hears your promise, they will not believe you, but will say to you, "When did you not promise like this, but when did you do it?" Are you embarrassed to hear this? Don't worry about embarrassment. You still worry about how the other party will believe your promise!
The best way to gain trust is, of course, to see as you see. Don't make promises verbally. It's better to prove your real change by deeds.
So what you need to do is to care about the other party, send warmth to the other party, understand the current situation of the other party through your common partner, and give comfort, encouragement and help to the other party in a timely manner. It is possible that the other party will ignore you or refuse you directly. You have to prepare yourself in advance and can't give up caring about the other party easily. In fact, in your previous contacts, you have become more and more familiar with each other, and that's why you always think you know each other with special confidence, but in fact, you don't care about each other as much as before, because you are not curious, and you don't explore.
Then you have to firmly believe that you should have the courage and perseverance to be rejected and continue to pursue. As long as the other party does not belong to another person, and as long as the other party is still warm about the love with you, you should not give up a glimmer of hope, because sometimes you can get a good result by sticking to it for a while, because the success of the hundredth time cannot be separated from the failure of the previous ninety-nine times.
Many people ask how to save love and save a person after breaking up? In fact, you haven't done enough. In fact, you can dial a phone in the middle of the night and tell the other person that you want to hear his voice. Maybe the next few minutes will be silent, but you should believe that silence is better than sound. Slowly, you can increase the frequency of your phone calls, and your topics will become more and more. This may return you to the original feeling of love, so you should cherish it, and let the other party find some changes in you when they talk to you on the phone Congee.
When the time is ripe, you can formally ask the other party about the schedule and see if the other party is willing to have dinner with you. If the other party agrees to you, you must take advantage of the opportunity to deliberately touch the other party physically when taking vegetables or cups, because this kind of touch can arouse the reaction of the other party's body to your love. At this time, you can take the opportunity to explain your intention to save love. No matter whether the other party accepts it on the spot or not, you are not completely successful.
Because you have more important things to do next. Do something you haven't done for the other party. For example, send a bunch of flowers to the other party by express delivery, or put a bottle of milk in the mailbox of the other party. These small actions can warm the other party, move the other party, and save extra points for you. After that, you can use all excuses to date with each other. In short, you should make all kinds of encounters or cherish the time alone. Maybe the atmosphere will be a little awkward, so you have to be humorous.
If you are lovers who have met your parents, then you have another chip. Don't slack in filial piety to the elderly, and go to accompany them when you have time. They can always stand in the identity of the past to give you advice, or see your heart to help you say a good word in front of the other side. If you haven't met your parents, you should deal with their good friends and invite them to be a lobbyist at the critical moment.
Make use of all available resources, correct your own problems, improve yourself, face failure bravely, confess your heart, and guard love carefully. Only then can you save a person and get the happiness that should belong to you.