The difference between marriage and love is that marriage emphasizes a sense of responsibility. As time goes on, the sense of responsibility between husband and wife becomes stronger and stronger. Especially when having children, it is time to strengthen both parties' responsibilities. Sometimes when you think about conflicts, you want to divorce, but when you consider responsibility, you still have to bear it. So when a marriage is in crisis, if you know how to awaken the other party with responsibility, you can save the marriage in crisis.
Marriage is a constraint that prevents you from having an improper relationship with the opposite sex outside of marriage.
People often test a person with the happiness of marriage. When a person has a successful career and a happy family, it can make people feel envious. When a person's family has problems, even if their career is good, it can make people feel imperfect. Therefore, successful people always encounter a painful problem: how to find a balance between family and career. There are also some people who, when meeting someone they like, ignore the requirements of social morality and give up their responsibilities. The wife and children ignored each other and ran away with others. Such a person, others will scold behind their backs. Therefore, in fact, people have a scale in their hearts, which refers to whether a person has a sense of responsibility at a critical moment.
When people are down or sad, they always appear particularly acute.
Instead of doing this, why not say something from the bottom of your heart to the other person. Perhaps what really moves people is your sincerity. If you can convince the other party with sincerity and make them feel that they have not fulfilled their sufficient responsibilities, then you are equivalent to giving them the best communication, making them aware of their problems, and constantly adjusting in reality, thereby stimulating their responsibilities for marriage and family, which is your ultimate goal in resolving the crisis. "Because marriage involves many struggles and confusion, if it weren't for experiencing some things, we wouldn't know what kind of outlook we hold on life.".
The primary reason why a person is attractive is whether he is kind or not. If he is kind, he will definitely know how to consider for the other person.
He would sacrifice his own interests to defend the other party because he felt it was worth it. When a person understands to consider each other, he has a sense of responsibility. So how can you make the other person feel like a kind person? This requires you to think of ways to remind and motivate the other person, so that the other person knows that the reason you believe in the other person is because you feel that the other person is worth trusting. If it weren't for problems in family life, you wouldn't even know that you weren't communicating enough. You believe that with their character and kindness, the other party will definitely turn back in time.
In marriage, the reason why a person has a sense of crisis is because they lack a sense of worry. If they know how to prevent trouble before it happens, they will avoid many unnecessary troubles. Life requires a sense of responsibility to maintain a marriage, but if you don't have the excellent qualities recognized by the other party, sometimes the other party will feel exhausted. After all, carrying a family requires two people to work together. It is difficult to imagine that a woman who hovers around her husband all day long will gain his deep love, and it is also difficult to imagine that a lazy husband will always be favored by women. So, remember to keep learning to grow in marriage!