Post Date April, 15 2023
It is natural to quarrel and get angry in love. On the contrary, the absence of scenes such as arguments and quarrels in love can make people feel insecure. Some people say that small fights between lovers can help heat up the relationship and add some spice to a consistent relationship. However, if the quarrel becomes too fierce, it will inevitably lead to a cold war phenomenon, which is difficult. Who should bow their heads and admit their mistakes first? Sometimes I really want to say sorry to the other party. Let's make up, but due to face difficulties, how can we get back to the original beauty after the Cold War?
1. Both sides should do more self criticism
When there are conflicts between men and women, no matter who is right or who is wrong, they can no longer be arbitrarily accused, as that will add fuel to the fire. Instead, it's important to do more self criticism and find out what's wrong with yourself, which can help alleviate tense relationships.
2. Talk to the same friend separately
Let this friend analyze the reasons for the cold war between the two people, and then tell them the solutions respectively, so that the problem can be solved as soon as possible.
3. Find a place where two people often go out and have a good chat
In this familiar environment, both parties are more able to open their hearts and talk about the past and future of the conflict. As long as they talk about it, it will be much better.
4. Eat
Eating is always a perfect way to divert attention. You should be clear that during the Cold War, if you can't control your thoughts, it's unnecessary to think about whether your boyfriend doesn't love me anymore or whether he wants to break up with me. In fact, boys just want to calm down and solve problems calmly. So, all you have to do is eat and let these thoughts gradually disappear.
5. If the emotional foundation is deep enough, the two parties can be separated for a period of time
Give each other more space. During the Cold War, we can temporarily separate for a while, and each other can be quiet. When we miss each other, it is time to make up. This is the solution that follows its course, referring to the short duration of the Cold War.
6. Be sure not to speak ill of each other
During the cold war, to avoid emotional intensification, it is necessary to speak less, and it is best not to speak, so as not to speak out and hurt others. During this period, both of them are very sensitive, and it is easy to make trouble if they speak ill of each other.
7. Proactively admit mistakes
Boys and girls are different. Boys can usually be the active ones, and there is nothing to lose face with. Instead, they will make the other party more dependent on you. Putting down your figure, giving the other person a loving look, a sincere apology, and a signal of reconciliation will strengthen the relationship between them.
Summary: The above are some ways for couples to reunite after a cold war. In fact, neither quarreling nor cold war between couples is scary. The scary thing is how to reconcile after a dispute. If neither of them is willing to bow, that's serious. Although boys usually take the initiative to show their affection to girls, the number of cold wars increases, and girls also need to coax boys appropriately, especially if girls make mistakes, In this way, two people can go on for a long time.
