Post Date December, 03 2023
Premarital cohabitation is not tolerated by traditional chinese concepts, and often causes psychological crisis for many young people, especially girls who worry about the harm caused by premarital pregnancy. Therefore, many young girls and children prefer to live alone rather than cohabit with their loved ones.
Reasonably speaking, cohabitation is a form of sexual combination, and its existence is also reasonable. It can serve as a preparatory period for marriage, discovering the strengths and weaknesses of each other in the practice of living together, in order to make timely corrections. At the same time, young people have a strong sexual desire, and cohabitation is also a way to solve gender life.
However, real life has also shown the negative effects of cohabitation. This gender relationship is not only not protected by law, but also has certain risks, especially for vulnerable women, whose negative consequences of cohabitation often bring irreversible losses. If you have already considered and are not willing to accept the behavior of cohabitation before marriage, you must resolutely refuse the other party. How can we refuse the request of the other party to cohabit without damaging the feelings between the two parties? The following methods can be adopted.
Show respect first, then state truthfully
Refusing a request for cohabitation from two people and saying "No" without saying anything can greatly harm the other person's self-esteem and make him feel that you don't love him. First of all, we should respect the wishes of each other, and first say yes and yes. For example, cohabitation is indeed a way to promote our feelings, which can help us understand each other better.
