Post Date December, 03 2023
Some people say that it is better to forget in the Jianghu than to learn from each other. This is really too pessimistic and negative. Life is progressive, and emotions also need to be progressive. When couples are already in marriage, mutual support should be the ultimate goal. It cannot be denied that there are many contradictions, frictions, and frustrations in marriage, and it is the most correct approach for two people to spend time together. So, how can we refine a marriage that nurtures each other?
First: Ignoring Defects in Marriage
When people feel that their marriage life is not perfect and want to pursue a happy life again, divorce has become an inevitable trend. And with the refinement of marriage concepts, more and more people are taking divorce seriously. Women's economic independence has made it easier for women to reach a consensus on divorce, as women are no longer dependent on men and are more willing to accept divorce. However, men lack some sense of guilt when they divorce.
However, there is no perfect person without gold, and it is difficult to find one thing in the world that is perfect, and marriage remains. Even if you divorce from your current employer and re find a new partner, how can you ensure that you will be better off than you are now. Couples come from different families and receive different education. To maintain a long-term marriage, they need to slowly blend in. Only by accepting the imperfections of marriage and working together to maintain it can marriage last. The couple, who have experienced the baptism of time, believe that their desire to grow old together will become closer and closer.
Second: Seize the romance of every moment
When in love, men and women often date, why do they make up for it after getting married? Couples should also date and use it to inject fresh elements into their marriage. For example, watching movies together, traveling, shopping, and so on. These most basic and simple things are also romantic and warm, which will make the relationship between husband and wife more intimate.
Smile and talk about your good memories from the past. Couples must have many wonderful experiences and events before they get married, which are all valuable assets for you. According to statistics, couples who often recall their marriage are very happy. Because this kind of memory virtually strengthens the connection between husband and wife.
Third: Do not "sleep over" any conflicts
Fighting is a healthy factor in married life, indicating that you are not yet estranged. But if you often argue or yell to solve problems, your marriage may be in trouble. The correct way to argue is to resolve conflicts without damaging the marriage, which ultimately boils down to choosing the words. We must adhere to the truth of "quarreling at the head of the bed and quarreling at the end of the bed", only in this way can we not exacerbate the contradiction.
Fourth: Communication is the Nutrient of Emotion
Couples must never lack communication, which is both an emotional exchange and a major measure to address gaps in marital life. Be certified as a listener to your loved one, accepting what they are saying with a peaceful and tolerant attitude, and your loved one will also respond to you in this way.
Fifth: Harmonious sexual life is the cornerstone of marriage
There is no doubt that sex is the most effective and sweet act of loving a couple. Couples must actively engage in sexual life, strive to expand the content of sexual life, add new elements to it, and make it a source of marital sexual well-being and happiness without affecting health, work, and learning. Many emotional experts are promoting harmonious and healthy sexual life. Because sex is the act of blending body and mind, and it is the act of promoting emotions and harmonizing physical and mental health. In a happy and perfect sexual life, couples can experience true beauty and love each other more.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
