"How to save your love" has become a topic that men, women, and children will discuss today. Each group has its own perspective. Some people will think that "what is yours will ultimately be yours, not yours, and you cannot force it." So these people will choose to let nature take its course. Some people may think that "if you don't strive for it now, it won't be useful to feel sorry in the future." Therefore, such people will choose to do their best to save their love. So how on earth can we regain our lost love?
First of all, before taking action, be sure to calm down and think clearly. Are you two really suitable? Are your worldview values really on one channel? Do you two really have a future together? If the answer is yes, then you can try your best to save the relationship. "If it's just that a broken love is too painful for you, and you can't stand the loneliness of a person, so to save this love, it's recommended that you avoid short-term pain.". Learn to grow up and face all the issues of broken love independently. This is what you need to do most.
Once you have determined that you must save love, you must start taking action. There are five key points to apologizing: 1. Affirm the other person's feelings and express regret. 2. Accept your responsibilities in the conflict of this breakup. 3. Clarify to the other party that this is not intentional. 4. Explain the actual circumstances of what happened. 5. Repair the damage caused. Even if you have no malice, there is nothing wrong with what you say or do. As long as your actions have caused harm to the other party, you can still express your apology for the feeling that the other party has been hurt. This is the least easy to do, but it is the most effective method. Show the other party that you are willing to take responsibility for the cause of the breakup. This will not make the other party feel that it is all their fault, and the other party will be more willing to accept some.
Of course, it is essential to take a posture that you want to compound. Speaking of posture, this range is really too broad. There are several main gestures that are closely related to saving love. First of all, to be honest, this is a very important gesture. What women often cannot tolerate is not the bad thing itself, but the deceit of men on themselves. "Because cheating is a bottomless pit, she doesn't know what you're cheating on her today and what you're cheating on her tomorrow. She feels insecure, so they want to leave such unreliable men.". If a man can honestly admit his mistakes and correct them next time, women will be more willing to accept him. Secondly, we should also show a humble attitude. Some female friends, who originally wanted to retain their boyfriends, always liked to say things with thorns because they felt that what had happened made her very unhappy, so she wanted to calm him in her words. Or she feels that he is always unresponsive to what she says, so she needs to use stronger and prickly words to attract the other person's attention. Doing so will only make the other person more and more distant from themselves. Always remember that your original intention is to stay, not vent.
When retrieving love, it is important to first consider whether this love is worth retaining. Be sure to show your attitude when detaining.