It's not easy to meet the person you like in the vast sea of people. 'If you like it, go after it' is an absolute truth! Many girls do not like to take the initiative and pursue the boy they like, so the burden of starting love naturally falls on the boy. Pursuing girls is the highest realm, where there are no tricks to win! No matter who you pursue, don't rigidly use these methods. In fact, every girl has her own personality, and not all girls are the same. But the following aspects that girls should pay attention to are universal, and boys can learn from them.
1. Generous but not showy.
I think no girl would like a boy who is extremely stingy and fussy, so the generosity and grandeur that should be displayed in front of girls must be demonstrated. But this doesn't mean you can show off, even if you are really rich. Of course, girls don't dislike wealthy guys, they just want their boyfriends to be more profound. If you always show off and show off how much money you have, it will give people a sense of frivolity. Of course, don't brag either. Girls are not fools, they can see your strengths. Girls really like boys with depth.
2. Show your humor and wit to the girl you like.
Nowadays, the pace of society is accelerating, and people are always surrounded by various pressures. They need to laugh more to relax their stress. If you can make her laugh and bring her a lot of fun every time you talk to her face-to-face, she will definitely enjoy it very much for a girl. This way, she will yearn to be with you because girls are sensory animals and pure rational things are not suitable for dating.
3. Proficient in analyzing a girl's inner thoughts from her words and actions.
Women often say 'want' as' don't 'and' like 'as' dislike', which is a hot psychological defense instinct. It is their habit to use language to conceal their true intentions. At this time, understanding when they say the truth and when they say irony is a skill that requires a lot of observation and observation. And sometimes they may lie to cover up their shyness and dislike others speaking. If a man pretends to be smart and speaks up directly on the spot, it often causes resentment. Therefore, when pursuing women, it is important to master the art of speaking and to be precise in timing.
4. Be a man who appears frivolous but actually has meaning.
Girls actually don't like men always being serious, which can make them feel bored, so it's okay to occasionally show off their frivolous appearance, but please pay attention to the scale of frivolity. For example, you can occasionally chat with her about gender issues. Although this can stimulate a woman's curiosity, remember to keep it to the point. Sometimes you can also showcase your talents appropriately, such as being a motivated child who has a strong sense of justice and research. Additionally, you have unique ideas for how to behave and do things, which will make girls feel that you are actually a person with meaning but not without conversation.
In addition, there are also some good ways for men to pursue girls, such as paying attention to their image, praising girls more, creating romantic surprises from time to time, constantly reflecting on their responsibilities as men, and always considering girls from their perspective. When you do these things very well, it is basically time for them to come naturally, Because girls won't allow themselves to miss out on an excellent man.