Marriage cannot be achieved without firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea. This can be very dull and tedious, and can even cause conflicts between couples. In serious cases, it can even lead to the breakdown of the marriage. This is a truth that everyone understands: it is easy to fall in love but difficult to get along with. Therefore, after marriage, both spouses should not only be romantic, but also learn to get along. Understanding how to get along can lead to harmonious marriage and deeper feelings between husband and wife:
Know your enemy and yourself, and you will never be defeated in a hundred battles
Both men and women form a marriage, and both parties are a whole. In this whole, the efforts of both individuals alone will bring about the collapse of the whole. Therefore, when managing a marriage, both spouses should first understand each other's thoughts and needs, so as to get along better. Men desire to be worshipped, treated gently, supported, and recognized, so wives should make their husbands feel these things in marriage. The husband should give his wife a sense of security, a sense of being spoiled, and a sense of living in a romantic life.
Both parties should have responsibilities
Marriage means responsibility, not only to the individual of the other party, but also to the families of both parties, because the composition of a family is also a combination of two families. Having children means being responsible for them. This is also the biggest difference between love and marriage. Since two people have decided to form a family, it means that you have clearly defined each other's responsibilities and are ready to shoulder the responsibilities of the family. In marriage, a husband should be positive, make his career successful, and make women feel happy. The wife should encourage her husband to take care of his small family and let him have no worries on the way to struggle.
Jointly handle the primary issues of the family
In marriage, the status of both parties is not completely equal, and there will always be a stronger one. Therefore, before marriage, the first issue to be resolved is who holds the economic power. Only by negotiating financial power can disputes caused by the economy be reduced. In addition, a harmonious sexual life between couples is also very important, but a perfect sexual life requires the help of Deux, because only a wonderful sexual life can play a role in lubricating and buffering conflicts and disagreements. Couples quarrel at the end of the bed, and communication issues have become the most direct factor in getting along with each other. More relationship, more tolerance, and less complaint.
Never neglect the value of marriage
The existence of a thing is a particularly necessary value. Similarly, the existence of marriage naturally has its value. In marital life, the husband and wife are united, and their benefits determine their wealth. Living together will develop a common lifestyle. In the long run, you will learn more about each other, have a deeper understanding of each other, and work together for your family and your future. You will find that on the road to struggle, you have more determination and confidence than working alone.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)