When men live at home, they often tell white lies, mainly to make their daughter-in-law happy and not to cause trouble. So, what are these lies? Have you also heard them. In fact, men are not easy either, so we must treat our men well in our daily lives.
Lie 1: "Of course, dear, that dress looks great
Reason for lying: avoiding arguments
Men who tell such "forgivable and harmless lies" may sometimes be unwilling to hurt their self-esteem, such as saying, "Of course, you don't look fat in this dress." Sometimes it's also to make their lives easier and not cause trouble for themselves.
Lie 2: "I can fix it
Reason for lying: maintaining self-confidence
Whether it's the drainage system, washing machine, refrigerator, or stereo system at home, there are always some guys who feel that they must be proficient and versatile in everything. If a man cannot fix his tools properly, he must lie that they are completely broken and cannot be repaired at all. Because if he admits to failure and lets his partner fix it, he will feel like he doesn't look like a man and won't be able to lift his head again in the future.
Lie 3: "It's okay
Reason for lying: wanting to silently lick and wipe the wound alone
Men also have feelings of sadness, depression, and disillusionment. For women, they can cry and tell their loved ones. For men, the sincere care of women can only make them feel more exposed about their weaknesses. That's why when women want to share their worries with their loved ones, men immediately retract into their shells. Please remember that for men, bleeding is glorious, and refusing to use band-aids is sacred.
Lie 4: "I called you before
Reason for lying: self-defense
They often sigh: since we have given up our infinite aspirations for your women, the wonderful and tempting single life, we really don't understand why you are so disappointed in us! When your partner forgets to call you, is late for a date, or is unable to buy cold medicine for you before the pharmacy closes, please forgive him a lot. If you always complain about some insignificant mistakes, he can only deal with them by telling small lies.
Lie 5: "If you don't want to have sex, neither do I
Reason for lying: Avoid making yourself look like a pervert
Women also enjoy doing it
Love - but with the person you like, you also need to have the right emotions, the right lighting, the right music, and even wear the right underwear. But men's sex
Love is not so verbose, as long as there are no physiological issues or moral constraints, men can enjoy sexual pleasure anytime and anywhere. When you say there is no emotion or physical discomfort, we can only hide our inner disappointment, so that you don't see us as just chasing after sex
Beasts who love and do not understand tenderness and romance.
Lie 6: "Baby, I am the best
Reason for lying: making you feel that getting married is worth it
Men often exaggerate when describing their bravery and strength, their adventure experiences, or their significant position in the workplace. The reason why they did this is just to make sure you don't forget that you are getting married to the right person.
More importantly, men whitewash their resumes to constantly remind themselves of their suspicious male chauvinism. Men cannot tolerate being at the level of following the crowd - doing work that follows the crowd and receiving a salary that follows the crowd. Especially when I see those extraordinary men in TV commercials every day. Talking big is just to make oneself feel better. If he tells you 'I forced them to fire me', you don't have to take it seriously either!
Lie 7: "My past girlfriend? That's all
Reason for lying: self-protection
Does the wife have the right to know the true situation of our past girlfriend? How good is she? How beautiful is she? When men with a strong sense of privacy face such problems, their perfunctory behavior can be imagined. Men also understand the importance of honesty, but what we are talking about is integrity. We are unwilling to answer some questions. If we lose any privacy after getting married, we will feel like someone has stripped us of our clothes. And the emotions of the past are our safest privacy zone.
Lie 8: "I will never lie to you
Reason for lying: in order to live happily in the future
This is the romantic language spoken by men to dispel women's doubts, because sometimes what women really want is Hollywood movie like dialogue. But even if he wants to do it - when we say it, it's usually what he wants to do. Can he really do it? Has he ever lied, avoided, or boasted? Will he keep his promise for important things?
It depends on what kind of person he is and the strength of your marriage relationship. Perhaps it will take a lifetime to find the answer. But one thing is certain, he hopes for a happy and perfect ending like a Hollywood movie. what about you?
Conclusion: In married life, appropriate lies are still necessary. Appropriate lies can make our lives better and better, and appropriate lies can make the relationship between husband and wife sweeter. Isn't that very good? For our happy life, sometimes we really have to tell some white lies. White lies are also acceptable, after all, the premise is for the good of this matter or for the better sex of life.