When you have a crush on someone for a long time, you will find that her every move and every smile seem to have become the most beautiful memory in your heart. "But instead of" admiring fish at a distance, it's better to retreat and form a net. "Rather than liking them behind their backs, it's better to think about how to make them gradually like you.".
First, you need to learn to create opportunities and become familiar with each other
You need to observe each other's living habits and then find opportunities to communicate with them. Let the other party remember you in their own clever ways before you know it. When making contact with the other person at the same time, it is important to maintain elegance and grace, so that the other person feels that you have a very meaningful appearance despite not saying much. When you understand being different from others, you will definitely attract their attention. More importantly, in every contact with her, you should appear courteous and let her feel that knowing you has a long lost familiarity.
Second, you need to find ways to meet some of her better friends
You need to find ways to meet some of her close friends and try to make a good impression on them. If you have nothing to do, buy more snacks for these friends, so that these people gradually become familiar with you, understand you, and recognize you. Without realizing it, you will gain their trust. By constantly exchanging information about her through these sisters, you can strengthen your understanding of her personality.
Third, it's important to understand that it costs money to invest and chasing a girlfriend
If you want to chase your girlfriend, you must not be too stingy. To understand how to spend money and invest, you can arrange several opportunities and organize several activities to make the other party recognize you unconsciously. Through activities, you can gradually cultivate feelings between yourselves. Note that in the event, what you need to do is not to nag, but to serve well with your heart. The more services you provide to the other party, the more recognition you will receive from the other party. There is a feeling between people. If you don't have the opportunity to contact each other, how can you feel it?
Fourth, start actively contacting her
After you get to know each other, you should learn to actively contact each other. If you have anything to do, call the other party and have a chat, so that you will become familiar and understand each other unconsciously. In each process of contacting her, it is important to pay attention not to talk too much about yourself, but to listen to what she is talking about and learn to share her worries and solve her difficulties. Learn to take the initiative to do something for her. Make her feel like you are the most trusted person she has ever met. Only when you reach this point can you slowly occupy her heart.
Fifth, learn to express yourself at the right time
"When you have been in touch with a girl for a long time and you feel that she already has feelings for you, you need to take the opportunity to learn to express yourself.". How can I express myself to the girl I like? Confessions must be able to move the other person's appearance and tell them that you have loved them for a long time. I just kept worrying about her refusal and not having a chance to speak up. And let the other person be moved by your confession. Make her feel like you're holding her in the palm of your hand.
Love is romantic and laborious. When you begin to like someone, it means learning to be patient, waiting, and waiting. However, it is in this process that men increasingly gain the true love of women.