Post Date December, 03 2023
How to maintain long-distance relationships among college students?
As someone who has experienced a long long-distance relationship, seeing this topic is really warm. Let me first give a general introduction to my situation. My husband and I got to know each other during a learning process. To be more practical, it was still an online learning experience, so we should have started online dating. He goes to school in Fujian, while I go to school in Hubei, which is 800 kilometers away. At that time, I was only a sophomore, and we got together after graduation and went through three years of long-distance love. In these three years, we have had arguments and conflicts, but in the end, we have achieved positive results. Now we are married and have a daughter, living a very happy life. Today we will discuss how to maintain long-distance relationships among college students.
Firstly, we must try our best to create meeting opportunities.
Although language can also convey emotions, love is different from other emotions. In addition to love, love also includes sex. In addition to sex in a narrow sense, sex in love also includes all physical contact and language related to sex. So two people can regularly hug and kiss each other, which is very helpful in promoting their relationship, and this is also the most typical characteristic that distinguishes friendship between the opposite sex. If two people are in love but haven't seen each other for several years, what is the difference between such a relationship and a heterosexual friendship? So, in long-distance relationships, it is important to create more opportunities to meet. For college students, long holidays such as May Day, National Day, winter vacation, and summer vacation are the perfect time to meet.
Secondly, make sure that the other party can contact you at any time.
Many lovers will argue because the other party did not actively contact them or did not reply to them in a timely manner. Not replying to the other person in a timely manner not only makes the lover feel that you don't love her so much and don't care about her so much. At the same time, it will also make her daydream while waiting for your reply, which is very detrimental to the development of the relationship. For college students who are in long-distance relationships, it is important to ensure that the other party can contact them at any time. Firstly, you need to share your class and schedule with the other party, and then try to contact them when they have time. Of course, if you have any other arrangements in your spare time, you should also try to inform the other party first, which plays a great role in establishing and maintaining trust between two people. Finally, if the other party really has an urgent matter that makes it inconvenient for them to answer the phone, they must send a message to the other party. If there are events such as exams, be sure to reply to the other party as soon as possible after the matter is over.
Thirdly, buy more gifts for the other party.
The best thing about maintaining a long-distance relationship is to look forward to it. Firstly, I look forward to sending a package from afar containing gifts from my beloved, which can be very exciting to think about. Secondly, keeping gifts from him who is far away also reminds us that he has always been with us.
