How to improve the relationship between husband and wife.
Always recall love: love is the precursor of marriage, and the situation of men and women in love who are attached to each other and hard to leave for a moment is really wonderful. After marriage, often recalling the hot love scene before marriage can arouse the emotional resonance of the couple, and add romantic feelings in the memory, more yearning for the future, thus enhancing the relationship between the couple.
Arrange another "honeymoon": the honeymoon at the time of marriage is the period of the deepest feelings between the husband and wife. At that time, the two people put aside all the troubles and completely entered the world of love over honey to enjoy the "Garden of Eden". After marriage, if you can take advantage of holidays and arrange different "honeymoons" every year, such as traveling to a different place, recreating the love world between the two people, and revisiting the beautiful dreams of the past, you will be able to set off waves of love and make the relationship between husband and wife stronger.
Celebrating commemorative festivals: wedding anniversary, each other's birthday, love anniversary, etc., are important dates in the history of love between husband and wife. At that time, take appropriate forms to commemorate, so that both parties feel that the other party has deep love for themselves, which plays a great role in consolidating the relationship between husband and wife.
Compensate for past debt: Many couples failed to take the ideal form to repay each other's love when they got married due to the limited conditions, such as failing to spend the honeymoon, failing to buy a decent gift for their lover, etc. A few years later, when the conditions are met, remember to complete these unfinished matters in order to repay the debt owed in the past, which will make the other party feel that you are a very affectionate and affectionate person, and the love for you will multiply. For example, many gay men will buy jewelry for their lovers after marriage, and many couples who have passed the age of marriage will take wedding photos.
Learn to please your lover: Some men and women, when dating each other before marriage, always try to please each other, but after marriage, they no longer care about each other's feelings about themselves. This practice will hurt the feelings of the couple. Therefore, after marriage, female comrades should be gentle and virtuous as always, and care for their husbands; Male comrades, on the other hand, should carefully appreciate their wife's inner feelings, not only take care of her everywhere, but also learn some skills to please her, such as when she buys high ginseng clothing, help her make a beauty plan, and have a little humor from time to time.
Create some unexpected surprises: Surprise the other party unexpectedly and often act as an emotional "stimulant". Therefore, creating a little surprise is very good for improving the relationship between husband and wife. For example, hiding from the other party, bringing his or her relatives in the distance to meet, buying something for the other party that he or she really wants to get, creating an activity for the couple that the other party has not prepared but likes very much, and so on, can make unexpected surprises arise spontaneously, thus bursting out a strong emotional flower in the surprise and setting off a jubilant heat of love.
A little farewell is appropriate: "A farewell is better than a new marriage". After a period of quiet husband and wife life, consciously leave each other for a period of time, deliberately cultivate the yearning of both parties for their loved ones, and then get together happily. At this time, it can make the emotional heat of the couple's yearning interweave into a happy reunion carnival, and push the calm feelings of the couple to a new peak.
Pay attention to their own image: Some people are no longer particular about their clothes and appearance after marriage, and are not neat. Especially for gay men, this problem is even more serious. In fact, no matter which side of the couple, they don't want each other to leave a bad image in the eyes of others. Therefore, pay attention to your own image, not only to please the other party, but also to fight for face in public. Otherwise, it may affect the feelings of both parties.
To prevent children from seizing love: Many couples, after having children, often use their emotions to their children, often ignoring the emotional needs of their loved ones, especially female comrades. This approach is biased. It is necessary to love your children, but this does not mean that you should give up your love for your lover. In that way, it will not only neglect the lover and affect the relationship between husband and wife, but also cast a shadow over the family.
Keep fresh sex life: sex life is an important way to connect couples' feelings, and good sex life is the necessary guarantee to consolidate and develop couples' feelings. Many married couples have the same sex life, lack of innovation, and lead to emotional passivity. Therefore, it is necessary to create a new sexual life style. By changing the time, place and position of sexual life, both husband and wife can get fresh feelings from the forever fresh sexual life, and keep the emotional flower of husband and wife fresh forever.
Leave some personal privacy: people who measure more will also be jealous of their lover's gossip, and it is more difficult to tolerate knowing that the other party's "red apricot" affair, which leads to the family crisis is not uncommon. Therefore, it is not a good idea to "confess" the privacy in the past personal marriage history to the present lover. That will not only help improve the relationship, but will bring about avoidable emotional crisis. Therefore, leaving some personal privacy is a wise choice to consolidate and develop the relationship between husband and wife.
Beware of making friends with the opposite sex: It is normal for couples to have their own social activities after marriage. However, we should be careful to make friends with the opposite sex, and keep a proper balance in our contacts, so that our relationship can only be controlled within the gay relationship. Friends of the opposite sex who obviously have a good feeling for themselves or even have no good intentions for themselves should take the initiative to alienate and deal with emotional disputes with reason. The best way is to participate in some social activities that are attended by yourself as little as possible. Even if you can't refuse, you should also ask to attend with your lover. This should be done especially when there is a danger of the involvement of a "third party", so as to put an end to their wishful thinking.