How to handle this behavior correctly if a child is spying on their parents' sexual lives

A child unconsciously peeks at what parents should do if they have sex, without harming their child's curiosity, and can also be given a one-time education course. This is a headache for many parents. Children have a strong thirst for knowledge and curiosity, and sex education is a very important course for children.

When couples have sex, if they have children, they must carry them on their backs, which is also known to many couples. In order not to affect the normal growth of children, this is also what parents must do. But if a child has the behavior of peeping into their parents' sexual life, how should they handle it correctly?

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As children grow, their sexual awareness is also increasing, and their sexual curiosity is natural, taking into account their desire and need for knowledge, as well as their age and awareness. Excessive sex education can cause children's curiosity and enthusiasm, especially in this age group, near the development stage of children, easy to cause children's sexual precocity.

However, the behavior of blindly concealing and abusing children can often also dampen their thirst for knowledge and produce distorted thoughts about sex. Letting go, cracking down, and suppressing them can lead to pathological reactions in their sexual psychology. Therefore, parents must be moderate in their children's handling of this issue and sexual education, teach them self management and self discipline, and vent their children's desire through a colorful life, Dilute their curiosity about sex.

In order to avoid children's peeping, parents should pay more attention to some details of life and correct their children's practice:

Avoid sexual stimulation. Since children during this period have already entered primary school and are able to consciously read some books and master relevant knowledge from them, parents should pay attention to the scope of their children's reading and not allow them to read books and pictures that are inappropriate for their age, about love, violence, or even obscure sexual descriptions. Nowadays, with the development of social media and the internet, children are also easily exposed to content that is not consistent with their age. Therefore, guardians should try not to let their children surf the internet alone and watch sexy and exciting web pages. Guardians can watch news, play games, and learn knowledge online with their children

In addition, guardians should pay attention to keeping their adult books, picture books, and CDs, and never let children see them. Children at this stage are highly curious and imitative, and these things can cause harm and stimulation to their young hearts when they are completely unaware of adult sexual abilities. Not conducive to the physical and mental health development of children.

If parents can properly educate their children and know what to do, it can be a good way to prevent their children from developing the habit of peeping. In addition, parents should also pay attention to some things in their behavior. It's best not to have domestic pornography. Even if there are, they should be hidden from children.

How can children turn danger into opportunity when they encounter their parents' sex

Parents are startled, shy, and have a high likelihood of being angry. This is a very normal psychological reaction under the circumstances at the time, but it is important to calm down and try to digest this emotion in a short time. Do not be angry. In addition to shielding and organizing body posture as soon as possible, attention should also be transferred to the child as soon as possible. This process naturally gets better.

If the child asks, "What are you doing?" It means that he doesn't know anything about it, and this is a good opportunity for sex education. Children have the right to know, and parents also have the right to know. What should we tell our children? This is a manifestation of parental love, and sexual behavior is a natural behavior that humans have had since ancient times, with unique rules. According to the child's age, explain it succinctly in the language he knows. This is also an unexpected incident for a child, who is not mentally prepared and should not speak at length. The principle is, what do you think we're doing? Knowing where a child's curiosity lies is not just a parent's own sexual embarrassment, which is difficult to say. If a child keeps asking questions, parents should also stop there. Because there is too much information, the child cannot digest it in a timely manner, especially if the parent's current state is not fully prepared to provide sex education to the child. Therefore, using the child's curiosity, it is possible to continue educating him on sexual knowledge in the near future.

"When the child is not speaking, he turns around to leave and go to bed. The child feels uncomfortable in this scene, and he doesn't know if he really knows about sex.". At this time, parents should not actively communicate with their children. Recently, it is necessary to actively understand children's understanding of sex and conduct appropriate sexual knowledge education.

If a child exhibits negative emotions, parents should contact the child as soon as possible. It is best to understand the reasons for children's negative reactions. If children refuse to communicate, parents should also take the initiative to express, such as that we are not fighting; He is not bullying me; We are not doing disgraceful things; We are willing to do such a thing; We love each other, which is one of the ways adults express their love; This is our privacy, we are not with you, not that we do not love you and so on. The goal is to seize the opportunity to prevent or timely correct children's negative perceptions of sex, even erroneous perceptions.

Avoiding complaints between couples can aggravate children's discomfort and self blame. "Please comfort each other, learn from each other's experiences, discuss good methods, and try not to affect your future sexual life due to such accidents.".