Post Date December, 03 2023
Short circuit "is a physical term. In a circuit, if the current does not flow through the consumer and is directly connected to the two poles of the power supply, it is called a short circuit in the power supply. When the power supply is short circuited, the current on the circuit will be very high. Such a large current cannot be withstood by batteries or other power sources, which can cause power damage; More seriously, due to excessive current, the temperature of the wire can rise, which may cause a fire in severe cases. A short circuit in the love line can also be like this, often causing physical and mental exhaustion on the one in love, and sometimes even causing the relationship to break down.
Before we think about how to deal with short circuits in love lines, let's first discuss why love lines are short circuited.
One reason: Make choices for the other party.
Many couples have such an experience that they go out to dinner with their girlfriend, and the other party the final say what to eat and play. Although there is love between two people, one needs to tolerate the other, over time, no one can bear it. Especially when one is very dissatisfied with eating the same food every time, the other person still says wrongly, "Isn't this your favorite food? You think I love it, I'm all for you." The person involved is even more crying and laughing. The other party hasn't asked herself how she knows what she really likes to eat. Even if she really loves that delicious food, it doesn't mean she wants to eat it at any time.
Reason 2: Treat your feelings as facts.
This is a common problem that many women have, and they often feel that their feelings are real, so they feel that this is the truth. For example, if you call the other person yourself, they hang up directly. A woman feels abandoned and unloved. So she will feel that the other party doesn't care about herself and doesn't love herself is a fact.
Reason three: remain unchanged.
In love, many people will have such complaints: "He said he must love me and kiss me every day, but as time goes by, his feelings become more and more dull, and he is unwilling to pay more attention to me." I believe that most people love each other when they say such vows at that time. Later, they may not really stop loving each other, but the way of love has changed.
For couples who always like to make decisions for each other, it is important to respect their decision-making power. At this point, some people may say, "Every time I ask him what to eat, he says it's okay. That's why I make my own decision." If that's the case, then it's better to change the open-ended question to a selective one. For example, inform the other party which three restaurants are nearby and which one they would prefer to go to. For those who like to take their feelings as facts, it is important to think more about the possibilities. For example, if the other party directly hangs up on their phone, it is not only because they don't care about themselves, but also because they are busy with work. Or if the phone is not around and a colleague helps to press it, it is possible. Finally, it is important to learn to view the relationship between both parties from a developmental perspective. Those vows were not fulfilled to see if the other party had changed their way of expressing their love.
