In recent days, my friend seems to be a different person. From the past day when he looks weak, he looks refreshed and looks much better in recent days. When I asked her if she was possessed by the "magic", she was quite frank and said that she was possessed by the "magic" of recovering sexual life. I asked her if she had received sex knowledge education at the sex clinic, and she said it was all up to her.
After ten years of relatively happy married life, Sun Hong and her husband are now living a flat life. Although there is frequent sexual intercourse, it is as dull as water.
Experts survey shows that in the survey of 500 people, 76 percent of couples who have been married for more than 10 years have sex, but sex can't bring any fun to their daily life. This phenomenon is common in many couples. For a period of time after marriage, with the disappearance of novelty, mystery and emotional climax, there will be unsatisfactory "sexual depression".
The stereotyped sex life will lead to sexual apathy. Couples caught in this impasse should understand that a kind of sex life that both sides feel satisfied with cannot fall naturally from the sky. It requires real sexual knowledge, ideological exchange and close cooperation between husband and wife.
Fortunately, they noticed this in time and saved the dull marriage. I don't know how many years they would have to stick to the rules. Bill, a man who has reached the age of 40, began to suffer from impotence. Even without impotence, it takes longer and longer to reach orgasm during sex. Sun Hong has read a lot of books about human sexual knowledge, and believes that this impotence phenomenon is normal, and comforts Bill without worrying. But Bill still looked worried.
The reason why there are many techniques for sex is to prolong the sexual attraction of lovers to each other. The expression of sexual desire should be varied, just like people's appetite, they should constantly change their tastes. For example, a person likes to eat fried deep-fried dough sticks, which does not mean that he likes to eat it every day. On the other hand, sex life is not "sex acrobatics". Sex experts remind people that they don't have to copy other people's sexual experience. Although many books provide people with many possibilities to show their love, the best way is for couples to explore a set of experiences suitable for themselves.
Achieving orgasm at the same time is the best way to end sexual behavior. It is good to achieve orgasm at the same time, but to achieve this goal will actually deprive one or both parties of considerable sexual pleasure.
Because of differences in growth environment and personality and different ways of showing love, few couples can make their sexual life harmonious at the beginning. Masters and Johnson pointed out that couples should understand that although there are differences in human sexuality, such differences should not affect the harmonious sexual life between couples.
With the improvement of social culture and quality of life, sexual life will also change. We must face up to these changes. It can not only promote love and strengthen family, but also make people have a new mental outlook, which is conducive to work and study.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)