Post Date December, 03 2023
There is a saying that when a smart man meets a smart woman, the result is equal to war; When a stupid man meets a smart woman, the result is gossip; When a wise man meets a foolish woman, the result is marriage. So, when men cheat, should women still act silly?
"Women can't be too smart" and "women who pretend to be stupid are the happiest"... Such arguments will be popular again every three to five. What's more puzzling is that many people bring this view to the problem of men's cheating, so there are women who should be silly, at least learn to be silly, so that men will turn around, otherwise there will be no happiness...... Is that true? Don't say women don't believe, I'm afraid men don't believe much.
Some people say that women should keep their eyes wide open before marriage, and only need to open and close one eye after marriage. To put it bluntly is to play silly. You can't be too serious. You think that being too serious is harmful to marriage. We all agree that "be frank and honest, and do things openly". Why should we press a woman's neck and say "you should be silly!" on the issue of family and marriage.
We all know that marriage is a matter of two people. It is complicated and complicated. It is full of trivial things, but it may cause family division at any time. In the face of problems, we must communicate, divide labor and cooperate in an equal way to solve conflicts. If a man cheats and a woman turns a blind eye and a deaf ear, it is really silly to the extreme. Then will a man stop his cheating because of your foolishness? No, he can only think that you are really stupid, or else you have water in your head. The result of playing silly is connivance.
Whenever we encounter a marriage change, it is not difficult to see such a description - "The reason why her marriage has come to the edge is that she does not know how to adapt and adjust her mind properly." I am drunk. If I pretend to be silly, it means that my husband is playing tricks outside without worrying about being found by you; Or if you know your "foolish loyalty", you can go anywhere with him without careful care. Is this kind of man needed by women? Is this happiness a woman needs?
Smart women, or tough women, are often regarded as "opposites" by men, but they are too stupid, or too useless, and men hate to marry. Many men always hope that the woman they marry will be confused with themselves and smart to others. However, men's "high standards and strict requirements" are usually to others rather than themselves. The so-called "silly woman is the happiest" is nothing more than deceiving or self-deception. If you are really a silly woman, it is all right, and you don't need to puff up your face and pretend to be fat, and flaunt yourself as a smart woman; But if you are a smart woman, it is almost impossible to play dumb on purpose.
As the saying goes, "When the water is clear, there is no fish, and when people are careful, there is no person". No one likes to be seen through and feel passive. But this only applies to small things. For the major issue of maintaining the integrity of family happiness, "women are happy if they pretend to be silly" is undoubtedly a false proposition. The worst is that many people really think that this is a panacea, but they don't know how many men it has taught and how many women it has harmed. Remember, tolerance is a good quality of women, and there is no causal relationship between it and being silly!
